Once Upon a Lemon Tree

A Lemon's Manifesto

2009-12-20T17:01:00.006-05:00

As the year draws to a close, I wanted to share some thoughts for a future we can all believe in... The following words are mine, and do not necessarily reflect the beliefs of anyone else - but, my guess is that we're not all that different.

I believe…

I believe we borrow the earth from our children; we do not inherit it from our ancestors. As such, I believe that our role – in our short time here – is to make the world a better place.

I believe in the ripple effect. If we focus positive energy in our own lives, neighbourhoods, social circles, and workplaces, that energy will ripple outwards. I also believe in the butterfly effect – the theory that a single flap of a butterfly’s wings can impact the winds worlds away. Small positive actions every day can create large-scale positive changes in the world – tomorrow, and for years to come.

I believe that everyone is accountable for their actions. There are enough guideposts in this world, whether in public, in one’s mind and heart, or in one’s immediate environment, to separate the good from the bad.

I believe that right and wrong are subjective – that good and bad are not. Good and bad are guided by morals. Being good means not hurting others – physically, emotionally or mentally. And no excuse can be made for not understanding when you are hurt, or when you hurt someone. Right or wrong are directed by societal law, and therefore change based on history, culture, religion or geographic location. This means that, depending on your timestamp in history and your location in the world, right and wrong can change… but, good and bad never will.

I believe that everyone is a role model. I believe that celebrities - musicians, singers, actors, athletes, politicians, and everyone in the public light ARE role models! Children (those we borrow the earth from) are watching, learning, growing and repeating. Role models who choose bad actions, independent of their inner emotions towards those actions (such as guilt) are demonstrating that bad is OK. And, it is not. Children cannot see what you feel, and rarely understand consequence. They are seeing the stardom and fame upon you. Act (don’t react) accordingly.

I believe that those who shape the environment influence perceptions and paradigms. If you are in marketing, in public relations, in communications, in any position where your output is visible – you have a role to play. Every news report, every billboard, every message influences people. Create a better world.

I believe that justice, in terms of protecting the good from the bad, trumps mercy – as hard as that may be. And, I do not claim any ability to make this happen, though I’ve never been in the position to choose.

I believe that all human beings are created equal – with 78 organs, 206 bones, flesh, blood, a heart and a brain. I believe that perceptions are shaped by others, and that it is often within these perceptions that hatred is born. I believe that hatred is the root of bad.

I believe that sometimes, symbols are created to cover up “bad”, but that the symbols unto themselves are “good”. And, I believe that sometimes, humanity needs these symbols. I believe that if humanity – unanimously – finds strength in these symbols, and what they stand for, the world can be a better place, and the “bad” will be removed.

Finally, I believe that we are each, individually responsible for a better planet, a better world and a better future for our children.

What do you believe?

When life gives you lemons, make lemonade...

Homeless Push: 12 for 12K - Make an impact in your community

2009-12-13T16:22:00.005-05:00

We are now 2 days into the 12 for 12K Homeless Push. The premise: take the 12 days before Christmas, and do a little “sumthin’ sumthin’” to help the homeless in your community. This shouldn’t be too difficult – it’s the month (and weeks) of the year where everyone is facilitating your ability to participate. So, I encourage you to do so…

1/ Register with the 12 for 12K community and share what you, your friends, your family, your colleagues are doing.

2/ Think beyond a monetary donation. Money is great – it helps a lot of the organizations run, but people who are homeless could use things made easy. Take a look at some of the suggestions put forward at 12 for 12K blog. (My personal favourite: the bake-off! Who would not like some home-baked cookies? You could even cheat and get some Pillsbury Holiday Cookies - mmm.)

3/ Go beyond what you would have usually done… Let’s face it, it’s the Holiday season. Every year, at the very least, you dig out one can of soup from your pantry and donate it to some food drive, somewhere. So, this year – can you do a little bit more?

Why? Let’s start by stating that the economy of the past couple of years has put an incredible strain on all our services for the homeless and the “less fortunate”. Canada’s unemployment rate is 8.5%, and although the economy appears to be turning around, the reality is that most of the indicators are still below 2008 levels. This is not good – and this also means that the “homeless population” in Canada has new residents…

What does this mean for my ‘hood? Let me try to provide some insight from a GTA (Greater Toronto Area) perspective:

• First, scroll to the bottom of this article and you will see that food banks and all major communities in Ontario have seen significant increases in use!
• Each year, an estimated 50 young women with no permanent home give birth at St. Michael’s Hospital in downtown Toronto. (National Post, November 09)
• From a CBC News Report (granted from 2004 – though I’m not sure things have gotten better):

Estimates of the number of homeless in Toronto range from 60,000 to 70,000. But advocates for the homeless say those numbers are low because they are based on shelter use and don't take into account those who live in parks or encampments, such as Tent City.

A planned census of Toronto's homeless was put on hold after advocates said street people were afraid the count would reveal their hiding places and make them vulnerable to eviction.

Now, I‘m a firm believer in the ripple effect… make changes immediately around you, and those changes will ripple out – like throwing a stone in the water. I also believe that if we can make a positive impact on youth today, we can make a difference for tomorrow. In light of this and what we are trying to do with 12 for 12K this December, you may want to get to know these shelters:

• Covenant House
• Eva’s Initiatives

On that note – check out 12 for 12K, and let them know Chief Lemonhead sent you…

When life gives you lemons, make lemonade!

Challenge: let's get the books to Tanzania

2009-12-08T21:49:00.007-05:00

So, we are trying to get 350 books to Arusha, Tanzania for the students of Shepherds Junior. Why, you ask? Well, between November 24 & 26 - in 48 hours - a global online community participated in an event named: Tweetsgiving. In the first 3 hours of the event, we raised over $10K for the school... and we managed, throughout the event, to generate enough to build a cafeteria for Shepherds Junior.

Prior to the event, I had the luxury of watching a streaming video with Mama Lucy (@MamaLucy, Lucy Kamptoni), the founder of the school. She spoke of the hope this school brought to Arusha, to the kids, to the families. She explained some of the struggles - few of which we could imagine. One mention that truly inspired me was the need to read...

I had such an amazing time participating in the Tweetsgiving challenge and learning. I rallied up some friends who are authors to donate some books to the students. We will have 350 copies of the book "The Circle" shipped to Tanzania (from Toronto, Canada).

Now, I have a challenge...

The shipment of these books will cost approx $750. That doesn't include insurance and taxes for the shipment.

I've set a target of $1000 so that we can cover the costs. If there are any funds left, I will donate them to December's 12for12K charity (fighting homelessness).

I hope you guys can help! If you'd like to... simply click "Chip In" right here.

Thanks so much!

When life gives you lemons, make lemonade!

Let's make a difference today... be thankful!

2009-11-24T14:23:00.005-05:00

Today is a special day: It is the launch of #Tweetsgiving. For the next 48 hours (well, minus a few at the time of this post), people all over the world are online sharing their stories of gratitude. This isn’t about throwing money at a problem – this is about affecting real change, for real people! The topic: how education can restore hope to achieve dreams. For anyone who’s read some posts from the Lemontree in the past, this is a refrain you’ve heard before... It is a deep rooted belief for me, and one I’m more than happy to support!

In light of the day, I thought it would be appropriate to reintroduce Nichole – my inspiration for this blog – and share her recent successes, hopes and dreams, all of which I have no doubt will become a reality.

Nichole’s past is one of those pasts you’ve seen in movies: small town USA, surrounded by issues of alcohol and drugs, a broken family, and a vicious circle. There were days when there was more beer in the fridge than there was food; days where mustard sandwiches were lunch... and dinner; and days where going to school would have been too embarrassing because of dirty clothes half washed in dish detergent. Not to mention – empty gas tanks which genuinely don’t get you very far if you even wanted to get to work!

Nichole dropped out of high school in grade 10. Now, in light of the particular subject of #
tweetsgiving, you might think – well, why didn’t you just seize the opportunity? Here’s the thing – and I think it’s hard for many of us to deny: those influential teenage years are the worse. Peer pressure, teasing, bullying – if you’re not “in”, you’re “out”. So, I ask you, is a teenager in the following situation “in” or “out”? Imagine living in a home where you might be too embarrassed to bring your friends home because you’re not sure if your mom will be sober or drunk. Imagine needing to wash your clothes in dish detergent. Imagine – no toilet paper. Like I said, if you’re not “in”, you’re “out”... and this kid was “out”.

Wait, what was that? You wonder why this family didn’t have government support? Well, they did! But, there’s a little problem with that. Food stamps – now it’s a “food card” – are what this family got. Great, right? No, not exactly; thing is, food stamps only pay for food! No shampoo, no soap, no socks – you get the picture. There was also some support from the county, but this is usually minimal. And, what always strikes me as bizarre is that so many “programs” are aimed at throwing money without coaching, without support. How can people who have never had support understand how to make their lives better without help?

So, here’s a teenage girl in the US mid-west who is surrounded by grown-ups who have lost hope, and who wonders if hope is even worth it. I recall Nichole telling me that, at some point in her life – and she couldn’t quite recall when – she had decided not to “want” anything because she never got it anyways. Can you imagine!? Think of yourself right now, how close we are to the Holidays... You must want something for Christmas or Hannukah or Kwanzaa (or whatever you are celebrating). Half the fun is the wanting, and wondering. Could you imagine if year after year, it was always capped off with: nothing! And, no – I am not suggesting the meaning of the Holidays is to receive gifts, but I recognize the reality that children live in. And, if as soon as their wishes are made, they’re just as soon destroyed... maybe they wonder if wishing, hoping, dreaming is even worth it.

Hope... lost. Education... lost. Dreams... unlikely.

It’s now been 7 years (give or take) since I’ve met Nichole... I have no hesitation saying that my life changed when I did.

I never understood how blessed I was to have a life where I had everything I ever needed – and more! When I talk with Nichole, I think of how lucky I am. I grew up in a place where hopes & dreams were encouraged, supported. I finished high school, and went on to University because I loved school... because I was taught that if you go to school and always learn and always grow, you will be able to be the master of your destiny and good things will happen... and they have, including meeting Nichole.

Today, Nichole is living in Canada. She went back to school, at the age of 27, to finish her high school diploma, and did so with honours! With support and encouragement, Nichole embraced her passion for photography. She created her own, very small, online portfolio of fantastic imagery that she likes to share with friends and family, and their networks. She is also planning to return to college for a paralegal education, knowing deep within herself now, that she has the ability to transform lives because she transformed her own. Nichole is driven by her past to change herself, affect her family and change the world "one ripple at a time"... She believes that if she changes what she can, immediately around her, the ripples will go out, in perpetuity, like they do on water.

To this day, Nichole accepts that her story needs to be heard, but she is still not ready to “be the face”. Not to worry, Nichole is 100% participating and committed to supporting the
Tweetsgiving event. In fact, many of you have been chatting with her already. When she is ready, I will make “live” introductions.

In the meantime... Nichole and I are both grateful for the opportunity to share her story, and show how support can translate to hope which can translate to education and create a circle of positivity. That’s what #Tweetsgiving is all about.

Thanks to Danny Brown for introducing me to Tweetsgiving... Let’s make a difference, today!

Would love to hear your comments. Wherever you post them: here or on twitter – include the #tweetsgiving tag.

When life gives you lemons, make lemonade...

Lest we forget

2009-11-11T11:21:00.003-05:00

I am one of THOSE people. One of the cheesy people who, on a day like Remembrance Day, tries to learn one more piece of history (usually Canadian, because I am) about what war time(s) was (were) like – and, in particular WWI and WWII.

Personally, my family tree was touched by the war – as, essentially, everyone’s was. My grandparents were Eastern European Jews who left before it got crazy, but none-the-less, who I’m sure saw more and heard more than they wanted to hear and see. My grandfather, while in Canada, even enlisted to go to the front in WWII, but was refused due to the results of his physical. He was quite saddened by this – noting that some of his friends would go, many would never come back, and he would not have the chance to be by their side. (Though, selfishly, I must admit, I’m glad he didn’t...)

In the spring of 2000, I met Grant McCrae – son of John (

In Flander’s Field), and one of the pioneers of the Memory Project. It was a real honour to meet Grant and hear some of his stories. I recall Grant telling me about leading his team on a reconnaissance mission behind enemy lines, over Germany. They were shot down and taken prisoner. Yes – Grant was a POW; and a lucky one – he’s alive today to tell his story. When we met, Canada’s “Tomb of the Unknown Soldier” was announced, and would soon be placed alongside the Cenotaph in Ottawa, ON (at Elgin and Wellington). Grant was going to be present at the arrival of the soldier. He said: “When we were shot down, it was the last time I saw my best friend; this soldier will represent him for me.” (Yes, there were tears.)

Today, though we still fight wars to protect freedoms, we always remember on the 11th day of the 11th month, at the 11th hour. We remember brave men and women who died to protect our freedoms, and the freedoms taken away from others. Lest we forget.

We were given a gift – at a time when most of us were not even born yet... I know it’s corny to quote a movie, but those of you who may remember part of the closing scene in

Saving Private Ryan; let’s earn it.

When life gives you lemons, make lemonade.

Back 2 school: Some kids have more challenges

2009-09-07T11:00:00.003-04:00

I felt it would be appropriate, on the eve of the real end to the summer, when tomorrow will be the day that all kids are back in school, I post a little post.

In today’s Toronto Star, we are reminded that so many children – right here in our own neighbourhoods, let alone backyards – are struggling to have a roof over their heads and food in their bellies. The article introduces us to a few children in the area: Tyler, Rylee and Miguel, all of whom are faced with challenges, sourced from different reasons, for not having a home.

Those of you who have followed the blog (though some of you may be new – check older posts) will remember a few different times where I’ve suggested you imagine the life… Imagine being a 12-year old boy (influential), going to your ninth school (no stability), and not having a desk or quiet place to do homework in (no security). This scenario doesn’t even include Tyler’s opportunity (or rather, lack thereof) to partake in normal extra-curricular activities like, say, soccer or swimming (no social life structure). I must admit, as I read this, despite the difficulties this family is facing, I had to applaud Tyler’s father for having the sense to say that he would take his son to a library or café to allow him the place he needs to do his homework.

I have, on a number of occasions throughout this blog, offered that access to education is a pivotal key to the reduction of poverty and homelessness. I genuinely believe this! These children who get tossed around from school to school because their family can’t find stability are in a very precarious situation. I will not condone the actions of “grown-ups” who make their choices, but when there are children involved, we must find a way to provide the support needed to give these kids a chance to not repeat the mistakes of their parents – or their parents’ parents. Often times, the “grown-ups” we see in these types of situations were once children like Tyler.

I am absolutely NOT suggesting that every “Tyler” grows up to make these mistakes. But if his family and the assistance programmers cannot come together to give him the educational opportunity and support he needs to get his chance, then how can we turn a blind eye and say “it was all your fault, Tyler” when he doesn’t grow up to be say a stand-up young man?

There are as many ways as you can dream of to help these children: from donating school supplies, to providing breakfasts and lunches, to volunteering with local shelters and support groups. Do we all need to do something? Well, I guess not… But, then I would also suggest that those of us who do nothing should not judge the results of inaction.

Schoolyard bullies affecting us all!

2009-07-14T13:30:00.003-04:00

16 days and counting... that’s how long the strike’s been going on in Toronto, ON.

A quick synopsis: approximately 24,000 city workers walked off the job in Toronto, on June 22nd. You can get a highlight of this strike and why it happened here.

So, why are we reading about this strike here on the Lemon Tree? Well, let me explain... This strike affects the people living in poverty in this city. It is horrible! Here is an article (from the Toronto Star) indicating some of the issues. And, we can see that Ontario’s fearless Premier doesn’t seem to be quick to want to fix issues! How ‘bout putting your money where your mouth is, Dalton?

The most disgusting fact I read here: a caseworker making $33/hr, whose responsibility – among others – is to help restructure the Ontario Works program and support his or her clients, is on strike for the permission to bank 18 sick days until retirement. Now, I am not in a position where I require the services of said caseworker, but I am pretty sure that this caseworker probably doesn’t quite understand the needs of the people he/she is trying to help! Sick... (Oh, wait – maybe you can use a sick day for that!)

To be fair: there are people who have been pushed into the strike because the jobs they got were unionized. And, many of these people (although the unions suggest it’s only a meagre 2% of their strikers) want to go back to work. Strike pay doesn’t cut it in a city like Toronto when you have kids and need to pay for food and shelter. These guys are going to cause their members to end up needing the caseworker!

What I mention above is just about the strike itself, and the impact on workers and people on social services. Now, don’t forget the homeless! It’s horrible enough to think of living a life without shelter or without knowing whether or not you’ll have food for dinner. How about living in a city where the garbage is piling up, and up, and up?

And, this isn’t only happening in Toronto! Windsor city workers have been on strike for 17 weeks. The people of Windsor are being battered left, right and centre. I am afraid to think of the conditions, the increased need for foodbanks and shelters.

Peeps: We are in the midst of an economic crisis. Governments, world-wide, are trying and trying to make this madness stop so people can have a normal life. A strike, in this climate, for these reasons – GET REAL! These actions are going to contribute to increased pressures on social services because so many people will fall short – including those on strike. Snap out of it!

(Please note: Chief Lemonhead is not angry with people who have a unionized job, because that is their job. Chief Lemonhead is angry with the UNIONS and they way they work. Unions probably go by: let’s hit ‘em while they’re down so they’ll have to give us what we want. Unions sound like schoolyard bullies to me!)

When life gives you lemon, play!

2009-06-18T13:33:00.004-04:00

A friend of mine recently introduced me to a phenomenal organization: KaBOOM! KaBOOM is based on the belief that every child has the right to play, and has the right to have easy access to a safe place to play.

Play is a huge contributor to how kids learn. It is said that anyone at play (at real play) can learn skills like: creativity, problem solving, collaboration. And, I don't think anyone would argue that play also brings laughter and joy!

Children in underprivileged neighbourhoods are often not motivated to play. Parents might keep children inside in order to protect them from the environment. Basically, play has changed a lot over the years. KaBOOM wants to bring real play back into the lives of so many children - and I applaud them!

You'll notice, as you visit their site, that many large corporations and sponsors will work through KaBOOM to provide these awesome play areas for children across North America. But, I also suggest we note that although some sponsorship might be required (re: materials and such), you don't have to be a corporation to build a playground!

If anyone is interested in working on one of these in the GTA, let me know... One Lemonhead cannot go it alone. I can connect with KaBOOM and get info. Could be a cool summer project.

On that note - get out and play!

Chief Lemonhead

Don River Trails - A home for the homeless

2009-05-29T16:18:00.003-04:00

I just had a colleague of mine in my office, and we were both chatting about a shared passion for trail riding. Yup - hopping onto a pretty darn cool 2-wheel, human powered trail/mountain bike and tearing the terrain up!

He mentioned that one of Toronto's neatest spots would be the Don River trails - an urban oasis for hikers and mountain bikers. What he also mentioned is that, if you go at certain times of the day - dusk, really - you will see that the Don River trails also host some of Toronto's homeless.

These people live under the bridges, on the trails, by the river. Some take their daily baths in the river, some start fires and cook what they found (or fished) during the day. And, though to us, it sounds like a summertime camping perfect picture, it is not for these people... it is their life.

It reminded me that, the summer is an easy time for us to help out... We may feel - perhaps - more guilty or more touched by the plight of the homeless in the winter. Of course, the cold - the biting Canadian cold - will do that to your psyche. But, in the summer - we have a bigger window for opportunity.

When I was lifeguarding (years ago), one of the important things to remember about triage was that you should help those people who had injuries which were quick to resolve so that you could make the biggest impact in the shortest amount of time.

So, in the summer... since you're likely to be out on these trails (or any trails) anyways, why not pack an extra sandwich, or loaf of bread? I still firmly believe that the solution to homelessness and poverty overall is to provide education and hope - but, it's hard to learn on an empty stomach, and harder to have the will to learn when you're daily fight is to get food.

So, if you're on the Don River trails this summer... can you make a difference?

Global high tech treasure hunt

2009-05-17T10:04:00.004-04:00

I thought I would introduce you to one of my new (well, almost new: been at it about 3 months now) favourite pastimes: Geocaching.

According to Geocaching.com:

“Geocaching is a high-tech treasure hunting game played throughout the world by adventure seekers equipped with GPS devices. The basic idea it to locate hidden containers, called geocaches, outdoors and then share your experiences online. Geocaching is enjoyed by people of all age groups, with a strong sense of community and support for the environment.”

If you have a GPS unit and if you enjoy the outdoors – this can add a little twist to your hikes. It’s also an amazing game to encourage the kids to get out of the house. Some people say their kids even feel like they’re playing video games!

Basically, you can participate at Geocaching.com (there are other sites, but this is the most comprehensive) by creating a free profile. Once you have your free membership (no catch, honest), you can find Geocaches located near you, or on your route to wherever you plan to hike or travel. The fun part: the directions to the cache are given only in longitude and latitude. Once you get to the coordinates, you usually need to look a little since the cache is hidden, often in clever ways. And, you should also note that a second of longitude or latitude could be approximately 15m in distance (see Greaterskies).

In short: geocaching gets you out, adds a twist to your hike, takes you to some pretty cool historical or geographical locations, shares great stories with a world-wide community and teaches some pretty neat stuff!

Some of our highlights include:

Discovering one of Toronto’s oldest cemeteries between the 427 & 401: GCH6KC,

Finding a travelbug from the Czech Republic, right here in Canada, and

Hiding our very own cache for other’s to find in Lex’s favourite dog park! (FYI: Lex is our 2 year-old super pup; cross Shepherd/Rottie.)

If you join the game, we’re the Lemonheads… feel free to find us at Geocaching.com.

The Lemontree branches out

2009-05-10T12:51:00.002-04:00

First and foremost, I want to wish all the “Mommy Lemonheads” out there a very happy Mother’s Day. I know a few expecting moms and one, in particular, who just had her 2nd baby this weekend – and, I wish each of them all the serenity this day encompasses.

Secondly, I thought I’d take this day to announce that: the Lemontree is no longer a one-trick pony. Without a doubt, the focus on philanthropy will always remain on the cause of poverty across North America. And, without a doubt, my firm belief remains that a critical key to the solution is access to education – and therefore, opportunity & hope. However…

When I started this blog, right from the first post, I mentioned how remiss I would be if I did not get a chance to engage in this amazing opportunity of creating dialogue (if not world-wide, at least) nation-wide, and hopefully continent-wide. What I’ve also come to realize in the past few months is that a blog, like all other online communications media, demand a good dose of spontaneity – to allow others to access instant thoughts and opinions. I’ve found myself looking for stories on the blog’s core topic; which unto itself is not a bad thing, but then really removes the “spontaneity”. Therefore…

From today onwards, the Lemontree is branching out. By nature, I will always be sure to highlight issues and victories as I see them in the realm of poverty across North America. I invite you to share them with me and together, we can bring important issues to the forefront. But, the Lemontree will branch out to also talk about a multitude of activities and issues – always striving to “make lemonade”.

I will start sharing on all sorts of topics: fun, funny, and inspiring (to me). I hope that the continuation (and slight twist) of the Lemontree will continue to interest you… This shift may cause more frequent blogging. :-)

For the record, it appears we have a consistent average of over 200 readers. Perhaps with the expansion of subjects, we can reach higher?

Thanks to all the Lemonhead readers, and looking forward to a great warmer season of blogging with you.

Lemontree links: Clarifying poverty definitions

2009-05-05T16:25:00.002-04:00

“Like slavery and apartheid, poverty is not natural. It is man-made and it can be overcome and eradicated by the actions of human beings.”

Nelson Mandela

It was brought to my attention that, what one person may consider poverty may be a fairly good living to someone else... and vice versa. Homelessness, for example, can be considered strictly by what it says “home-less” as in without a home, without a roof; living on the streets or in a shelter. But, there are many who are considered “hidden homeless” – those couch surfers (who are not couch surfing by choice) or those who sleep in their cars and shower at the Y. So – what is “homelessness” to you?

To help you, Lemonhead friends, here are a couple of Websites that can help us understand. If we understand and internalize our definitions, we will be able to focus our actions to make a real difference!

Previously known as the National Anti-poverty Organization,

Canada without poverty has a goal: to eradicate poverty from Canada by 2020. Their Websites helps shed some definitions around what poverty really means. South of the 49th (parallel), a fantastic blog: Poverty in America provides some clarity in definition and food for thought on actions and questions to ask.

For me – poverty starts from the notion that opportunity has been removed from a person’s realm of possibility. If someone has lost their hope, or their ability to see opportunity; or – if someone truly doesn’t have plausible opportunity, then this is poverty. Let’s be clear: I am referring here to the opportunity of accessing a better life, not buying a bigger boat!

I would like to make it my goal to help people restore the ability to see opportunity. It’s there, it needs to be seen, and then – opportunity needs to be seized.

Spritzer: Share your passion!

2009-05-01T12:23:00.006-04:00

So, as is usual when I am looking for a specific highlight for the Lemontree, I tend to do a little research. I completely realize that, on some level, the notion of research for a blog defeats the spontaneity of the tool, but I like to back up my opinions... Today is no different! In keeping with my previous post on the Olympics, and my desire to showcase Vancouver – and the Tale of Two Cities – I chose to take a look through the various events going on in Vancouver. My goal was to highlight events specifically focused on raising awareness around the issue of, of course, poverty. Now – hold the phone!

Feel free to use my

Google Search: Summer events, Vancouver, BC. Over 28 million results... Crazy! So, I started looking through them: arts, sports, music, charities, environmental issues – you name it, there’s an event for it. I suppose that’s not really a surprise – apparently, every day is a day for something. (Apparently today, May 1, is May Day – celebrating the “real labour day” in many parts of the world.) But, back to the events... here’s what got me thinking. None of them (well, maybe some) are incredibly expensive to get into, and many are free!

I started thinking about various previous posts. I believe, and it has been demonstrated, that when you find your passion – you learn about it, and learn how to apply it, you have a chance to make a difference in your own life, and maybe even in someone else’s. Yes; this blog is about poverty, and shedding some light on it. It’s also about sharing my views on how we can try and stop the bleeding, particularly in North America. We live in a place so rich in opportunity; built on the notion of “dreams”, “free society” and “opportunity”. Do I sound like a broken record yet? Share it!! I believe we need to provide everyone with equal opportunity to explore what they are passionate about and give them hope & a chance to develop that passion into something they can make a living out of.

So, this summer – let’s call this a Spritzer of hope... If you are going to a festival, event or other shindig. If you cross paths with someone less fortunate than you who might demonstrate some sort of interest in whatever “thing” you are going to see/watch/do. Maybe, just maybe, there’s some way you can share the opportunity, share a little hope...

A Lemonhead... Torn

2009-04-20T13:12:00.005-04:00

This post will be a little different than the norm... Let me explain:

To those of you who know me, it comes as no surprise that I am a genuine believer in the spirit of the Olympics. The notion of fair play; of bringing international athletes together. A stage where citizens of nations at war would join in friendly competition, and could very well stand atop a podium together. An event meant to inspire and bring hope… In all of this – I believe.

The stage for the 2010 Winter Olympics: Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada. For me, this is an incredible opportunity for our country to put itself back on the map. Olympic aficionados have stated that the Calgary (1988) Olympics were one of the best Winter Games in modern history, and we get to do it again! I see this as an opportunity for the city of Vancouver – to get funding, to promote itself, to create jobs.

But... this is one opinion. And there are others. So, I must be an equal opportunity blogger and showcase how some people may feel that the Games of the XXI Winter Olympiad might not generate the opportunities they could to a beautiful West Coast city...

In November 2008, Straight.com published this article. In it, we learn that BC has posted THE worst child poverty rate in Canada – 21.9% (in 2006), which is well over the national average of 15.8%. So, when I look at these stats, I think – how can we use a forum like the Olympic Games to make a difference. But, as the eyes of the world will be on Vancouver, it appears that some policies are trying to sweep the problem under the rug. In fact, take a read of this blog by the Carnegie Community Action Project – working to ensure Vancouver’s downtown East Side remains low-income friendly.

My concern is about the longevity of some proposed programs. We discussed (much earlier in the Lemontree) how RONA was provided training and employment for some of Vancouver’s lesser fortunate. And, we can be sure that with the Games coming to town (and to the region), there will be need for additional workers. That’s great news in the world economy as it stands. But, how long after the Games have come and gone will this last?

Can BC’s government and Canada’s government sustain the new population of workers? If not – what will happen to them when the party is over? Maybe they'll have the luxury to live in one of the temporary shelters proposed in the CCAP blog (with or without a bathroom depends on investment)...

As mentioned before, I’ve lived in Vancouver for 3 years. I've seen Vancouver’s downtown East Side. Cleaning up the town doesn’t mean getting rid of people who live in poverty, nor does it mean hiding them. It means helping them! Give them a fighting chance. The world will remember Canada fondly for its hospitality, natural beauty and very likely, its well-managed Winter Olympics. Let’s make sure the world also remembers a Canada who truly takes care of all of its citizens.

Isn’t it impressive that an event like the Olympics carries so many messages of hope & opportunity? Why don’t we carry that message into everyday?

Lemontree recommendation: Share the inspiration... Can we use the Games as a platform to provide education, shelter and food to those who need it? Let’s use this stage to truly promote equal opportunity and dreams and hopes to all Canadians. Do you believe?

Lemon twist

2009-04-12T11:04:00.002-04:00

Happy Easter & Happy Passover to all my fellow Lemonheads!

Independently of which celebration (mentioned above) you are celebrating today, there is some element of rebirth, renewal and definitely – lots of hope.

As such, and with one more apology, the Lemontree can now be reborn into Spring of 2009. In the earlier part of the year, I have explored a series of uses for the various online networks we are now bombarded with. By far – my personal favourite is now “Twitter”. As of this day, I will share short posts on Twitter about 3 things: this blog, “leadership & marketing”, and a certain photography Website. As for this blog, I suggest we take a little “twist”...

Of course, it would be improper for me to deviate from creating awareness around the issue of poverty. I know I’ve said it before, but it absolutely baffles me that the human race can do all the miraculous things it does, and yet not come up with a “social cause” strong enough to eradicate (if not minimize significantly) the issue of poverty... Especially in countries that claim to be “free, developed and full of hope”.

So, on that note, I’d like to spend some time over the next few posts introducing you to a city (in Canada) which you will hear increasingly more about over the next 10 months: Vancouver, British Columbia.

Vancouver is very much a tale of 2 cities... One that is lavish: cushioned comfortably between the beautiful shores of the Pacific Ocean and the Sunshine Coast mountains. One that is scary and run-down – and unfortunately scarred by poverty, drugs and despair. Both these cities collide in a beautiful province, in my home country...

I had the chance to live in Vancouver for about 3 years. In which of the 2 cities? Well – oddly enough, I think I sat on the fence.

Today – I want to share a story of hope.

I was working on Water Street in Vancouver at the time... The Landing. And, I must admit, I wasn’t getting a lot of dollars into the bank account! (I was also studying full time.) For some reason, and I can’t quite recall, it was a particularly tough week/month. It was raining (those of you familiar with Vancouver are not surprised about the rain, I’m sure).

I decided to take a break from work, and go have a cigarette... There we go; I admitted that I used to smoke! (Haven’t had one in a long time now.) I must have had one heckuva look on my face, because a few people walked by me and gave me a strange, almost pitying look. (I hate those!) I was standing under the awning of the building (no, not the by-lawed 100ft; it was raining).

After a few moments, a clearly wealthy man walked out of the building and lit his own cigarette. He looked over at me and said, “Having a bad day?” Being a stubborn and distrusting little punk (yup – another admission), I simply shrugged and turned away. A few more moments passed...

I could see this guy out of the corner of my eye and he pulled out his wallet. In this area of Gastown (a boutique-like area of Vancouver), it is sometimes customary to open your wallet and offer change to someone who is down-trodden. I was completely offended! I turned to look at him and, in a particularly un-polite tone said: “I do NOT want your change!”

The guy looked up and said: “I’m not giving you change; I want to tell you a story.” I noted at this point, that the accent was clearly British...

“About 10 years ago,” he started, “I got off a plane in Canada; here in Vancouver. It wasn’t easy. This is all I had to my name.” He pulled out a coin: a British pound. “I knew a few people here; but had cashed in for my plane ticket to Canada. I had nothing...” And then, like a scene from a movie, he flicked his cigarette to the ground (yes, yes – I know; bad for the environment. Stick with the story here.). He put the coin back in his wallet and slid it back into his jacket pocket. He turned around, opened the door to the building. He looked back to me and said: “Today, I’m the President of Nav Can.” He walked away; the door, shutting behind him.

Now, I don’t know this guy’s name; and, I don’t know how to fill the gaps in the story – but, this marked me. It marked me so much that, to this day – I carry a $2 bill (yes, Canada had those) in my wallet.

I never want to forget how I felt that day, and I never want to forget the little pieces of hope that people gave me along the way. All of these messages helped me get out of the place I was in...

Part of the inspiration to the Lemontree is these lessons. If we can all share hope, I know we can pull people out of despair and on a “path to renewal”.

The Lemontree, Poverty & Social Media

2009-03-21T12:10:00.003-04:00

Happy Spring Lemonheads!!

Yesterday was the day of the equinox: one of 2 days this year when the sun will cross the equator and we will have an equal amount of daytime and night time. What does this mean to the Lemontree? Well – not much, except that if it were a “real” Lemontree (as opposed to a virtual one), it would certainly appreciate 12 hours of sun! But, that’s not the point, is it now?

The sun, beaming into my window, reminded me that I really should post some more (as in, continue to shed light on our topic of poverty & lack of education – or, rather lack of access to education). And, I really need to apologize for being so sporadic with my posts... But, I’ve encountered something absurdly powerful: Web 2.0 in all its glory. And with so many applications, it can truly get dizzying. So, I’ve been learning about the virtues of a few applications. My recent favourite: Twitter.

Twitter: here is a site, virtually unknown in its inception in 2006. In just a little over 2 years, it has grown by over 700%; and though the exact number of users is unknown, experts peg it between 2-5 million, world-wide, and growing exponentially!

People tweet (a tweet is a 140 character message to the world) about absolutely everything and anything. Twitterers could be anyone from you to me to rock stars (apologies if you are a rock star and I’ve singled you out) to movie stars (ditto) and so many other iterations! OK – so, in less than 3 years, we can create a Website – a virtual social aggregator – that can generate over 700% in user growth, and still... we struggle with poverty.

But – here’s the good news! There are lots of Twitterers who tweet about this issue... and, as I’ve indicated before, awareness is needed first in order to generate action. So, shall we try a little experiment? Let’s test the power of the Internet.

Here’s the challenge – and, I’ll challenge back to the Twitterers too:

Let’s get the Lemontree message OUT!

Tweet your thoughts about lack of access to education and its link to poverty;

You can start by tweeting about this post: click the “TwitThis” button below. If you do not see the TwitThis button, make sure you click on the link for this post itself, not just the main page of the Lemontree. To make sure you are on the post link, select it from the menu on the right-hand side. At the end of your tweet, include the following: #lemontreeblog.

If you have your own Twitter account, make sure you post your thoughts, followed by #lemontreeblog.

Post your thoughts on the topic, and solutions – or links to solutions.

CHALLENGE: 50 Lemontree tweets by March 27th.

I will count the posts, and relay them back to a few Twitter accounts myself... Oh yeah – let me know who should get our info!! (I.e. Stephen Harper, Barack Obama?)

Who knows, we may come up with some awesome ideas to bring hope back into our communities, and drive better access to education for all! (If Twitter can change the landscape of the social network... it can be a tool to change the landscape of poverty.)

Tuition rant - Part deux

2009-03-09T21:57:00.003-04:00

OK, Lemonheads… the votes are in, the polls are closed, and 80% of you have said: tuition hikes in this economic situation are not a good idea!

Now, that means that 20% of you said “it’s OK”. To be fair, I received some good comments… Canada’s education system is a steal, and since the rates of education have not skyrocketed, like they have in other countries, we’re still in pretty good shape. Another comment had to do with the notion that the quality of education simply costs a lot of money, and everyone has to pitch in to ensure we have sustained quality – including the students.

I must admit, the dialogue is exciting. That’s the power of technology! At least this way, we can get people talking and looking for the right solutions to real problems.

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Though I agree that ensuring quality of education should be a joint responsibility between government, academia, and students, it is still in my humble opinion that increasing the cost of tuition – alone – is a completely unfair solution.

The proposal put forward only spoke of tuition hikes, potentially in the realm of 25% over the next couple of years! If the burden has to be shared, I’d like to see the proposals on the other parties before accepting a wide-sweeping tuition hike that will impede the opportunity of many students to attend post-secondary institutions.

One of the comments put forward also had to do with the value of college education; and the (misconstrued) pre-conceived notion that university education is better. University and college education are different - no, not THAT kind of different; just genuinely different. Students must be encouraged, by parents and other societal leaders, to explore what they really want to achieve and then to determine which post-secondary institution is best for them. None-the-less, the proposed “solution” for ensuring quality of education fell squarely on the shoulder of students – of either type of institution.

(If you are an “American Lemonhead”, I just want to clarify that though University and College is nearly an interchangeable term in the US, in Canada the perceived difference is somewhat similar to the difference between a College and a community college.)

Bottom line: before making it harder for students to acquire a post-secondary education, let’s look at a full package solution with a shared burden that is actually shared. This proposal hasn’t gone through yet… perhaps other options are being explored.

One can only hope.

"Tweet" to end global poverty?

2009-03-04T21:08:00.002-05:00

When I began writing this blog, one of my premises was that "I would be remiss in not taking advantage of a global online community of conversation." So - this post is specifically about that... the online conversation!

Here's an incredibly novel way to use Twitter: if you are on Twitter, you should totally check out: http://twitter.com/endpovertynow. For the first time ever, there is a "tweet-a-thon"; oh yeah - you heard (read) that right! If you add the tag: #apowerfulnoise to the end of your tweets (only until tomorrow, March 5), NCM Fathom will donate $0.50 to CARE Globally to give hope and opportunity to women and girls living in poverty.

If you're not on Twitter - check this Website out for more details: http://apowerfulnoise.fathomevents.com/tweet-a-thon. A cool concept - the Lemon Tree may just need to borrow that someday! (Theodore Levitt, an icon in the field of Marketing, would call that: Innovative Imitation!)

In the mean time, the posts in the month of February have been entertaining (to me - and I hope to you too) in the sense that I've had a fantastic opportunity to showcase some really interesting "conductors and connectors" all working toward an end to poverty in North America; all providing hope and opportunity to so many people who need it...

As for the last 2 posts, specific to education: post-secondary, in particular have focused on Canada. I will come back to that issue, as it is one incredibly near and dear to my heart! So, keep voting - still 1 day to go.

The education rant - WHAT? Tuition hikes!

2009-02-27T14:23:00.013-05:00

OK guys... I have to apologize right now, before I get into this text – because, of all the posts, this one will seem more like “improv” than previous posts. And so, with that:

25% Tuition Hike Touted

Um, pardon me? Last I checked the world (not just our precious little country) was undergoing what is all but called a depression! And, last I checked the Ontario Government has a plan in place to reduce poverty in the province by 25% within 5 years. OK – so, that’s an Ontario-only plan, maybe we don’t need to worry about the rest of the country?

Have we absolutely gone mad?? HOW DO OUR GOVERNMENTS AND EDUCATIONAL INSTITUTIONS DARE TELL US THAT EDUCATION HAS TO BE MORE EXPENSIVE? How can you increase fees for education while trying to reduce poverty? It must be nice to be making a six figure salary in the stone towers of Parliament Hill or Queen’s Park and to think that the rest of Canadians can just “pay” for their own, or their kids’, education over and above what it already costs. Craziness!

Meanwhile – and here’s the fun optic – President Obama has made education in the US a priority... committing to making post-secondary education affordable, and committing $53B US to American education institutions and systems; asking Americans to commit to at least 1 year of post-secondary education. So, maybe Canada has a slightly reasonable logic behind this ridiculous imposition (is that even possible?); but Canadians can also tune into NBC, ABC, CBS, CNN and even Fox... so, if you think people are just sitting around saying “Oh, OK – let’s pay more for our education”, you’ve lost your mind! Canadians are ticked! They’re saying: “how can a country, that is WAY deeper in debt than us, put a priority on education, and we can sleep at night asking our citizens to pay more!?” Take a look at the 5th bullet on this page of the America Recovery Act.

Now, and when I’m not ranting I’ll spend more time on providing facts about this, in Europe, there are some countries (Scandinavian countries, Greece) who pay for the students’ undergrad degrees – ah, wouldn’t THAT be nice? Some people might question the quality of a “free, public education”, but according to research from the Canadian Council on Learning, we could question our own:

More than one million Canadians aged 25 to 44 have not completed high school and approximately 1.6 million 16- to 25-year-olds have less than Level 3 literacy, the standard considered the minimum to function effectively in a knowledge-based society such as Canada. (pg.8)

In 2005, Canada placed 22nd of 26 reporting countries in the share of public expenditures on PSE. At 55.1%, Canada’s share was well below the OECD average of 73.1% and the EU average of 82.5%. (pg.10)

In 2005-2006, nearly 350,000 full-time students received close to $2 billion in financial aid from the Canada Student Loans Program. (pg.10)

Undergraduate tuition fees increased 36.4% between 2000–2001 and 2008–2009. Since 1996–1997, the rise in undergraduate tuition costs has exceeded the rise in the Consumer Price Index every school year except 2005–2006. (pg.10)

Both the number of students borrowing, and the average amounts they borrowed have increased substantially in recent years. (pg.10)

It’s ALL ridiculous, and I hope the people from the “educational think-tank”, the non-profit Ed ucational Policy Institute, are reading this! If you are – check this out (and, FYI – I am educated... and in debt because of the loans you claim I didn't need):

WE ARE ON THE BRINK!

We are on the brink of taxing and imposing costs on my country’s future for the mistakes of my country’s past. Ah – go for it, call me a “typically complaining and unhappy Gen X’er – I won’t be offended (for once)!

NO!! Canadian families cannot afford increases in their children’s tuitions – they’re losing their jobs!
NO!! Students can’t find part-time jobs as easily as you ($100K+ folks) think; the jobs – if the companies aren’t closing – are being given to those parents who are losing their jobs!
NO!! Canadians won’t stand for your recommendations; and I can only HOPE that our Governments won’t cave to such ridiculous pressures!

If we want a strong future for OUR country, and for OUR culture, and for OUR youth – then THIS is not the way to go! Talk to students, talk to families and talk to people – you may be enlightened to find out that they’re not interested in tuition hikes.

And, I’d also like to go on record as saying that I do understand the important value of post-secondary institutions. Believe me, I’m probably one of the biggest fans.

But, if you turn these institutions into country clubs for rich kids, then what kind of vision are you building for the future of this country? My Country! And, yours too – right?

2009-02-21T23:55:00.005-05:00

OK, here’s something funny – and not funny “ha-ha” (because apparently, funny is not my thing), but funny interesting. I realize tonight that I am a victim of positivity and optimism. Is that really bad, though? Well, most of us would jump to the conclusion that it is not – and I’ll agree; but, I think we need to all throw in a smidgen of reality and humility into our thoughts.

I realize that it’s not always easy to pick a single topic, like this one, and write about it regularly. But the thing is the link between poverty and lack of education never gets old. And, not only that: it doesn’t seem to go away!

Someone mentioned to me the other day that the Lemon Tree can, at times, be a little depressing... and it can be! On the other hand, there are so many great stories of hope through the connectors and conductors like George Brown College, Life is good, and RONA. Despite the best efforts of these great organizations, poverty seems to be growing – thanks, in large part, to the current economic situation.

I read a few articles and heard a few news reports over the past couple of days – on two fronts. Let’s start with the first tonight:

Take a look at this YouTube video from Hoyes Michalos, Trustees in Bankruptcy. It appears that the cost of education in Canada (and, my guess is, in the US too) can sometimes be prohibitive to prosperity. So, the challenge isn’t only about providing educational opportunities that are accessible, but also that are affordable. Sounds to me like the system of higher education may, itself, have a case of dyslexia for numbers (also known as dyscalculia)...

Education is not a right, it is a privilege, you say? OK, but is it a privilege for the privileged or is it a privilege for those who work hard, believe in education and truly learn such as straight A students?

You remember Nichole and her family, right? The original inspiration for the Lemon Tree taking root.

Nichole’s oldest nephew, Steven is a straight A student... Yup, the boy – 15 now – wakes himself up at 6am to get himself ready for school. (No one else has the motivation...) He goes to school and studies; he comes home and does his homework. Like every 15-year old boy, he has his moments of rebellion, but overall he is a good kid, by all measures of the term. I mean, how many 15-year olds do you know make their own breakfast before school? His motivation: NOT repeating the cycle of poverty. Steven has hope! He wants to become a criminal scene investigator (CSI). He likes puzzles and really weird biology stuff; and he’s good at it. His potential is amazing.

But, what if the cost of education is too high? What if he can’t get a scholarship? And though there is always social funding to turn to, it is likely going to take him to Community College – which is absolutely acceptable; but, if you were destined to go to an institution like the Ohio State University, you might question (and perhaps lose hope with) an alternative.

Should we tell Steven that his post-secondary education is a privilege?

Life is Good - update for TO festival

2009-02-17T12:55:00.005-05:00

Hey -

So, here's a first...

Before posting yesterday's blog post, I had actually joined the Life is good Facebook page where people were discussing the events. In fact, I had previously recalled that Life is good held these events, but at the time, they were only in the US. Since I was aware of this, I posted a question on their Facebook group page to ask when the festivals would be outside of the US, and in particular, in Canada.

Naturally, as you've noted, I did some extra research and found out that the first ever event outside of the US was going to be in Toronto, Ontario. And, hence, the post: Life is Good, Lemonade is great!

Well... today, I received a message to my Facebook account from none other than Life is Good's marketing manager herself! (Thank you, Brooke - it was much appreciated.) Here are some details on the upcoming Life is good festival in Toronto:

September 19th, 2009

Coronation Park (Toronto, ON)

Raising funds for: Children's Wish Foundation (Fulfilling the wishes of critically ill children across Canada)

And though the Children's Wish Foundation does not directly link to the core purpose of the Lemontree: highlighting the link between poverty & lack of education, it does promote hope & opportunity to a different kind of need.

(Not to mention, many of Life is good's benefactors in the US are specifically related to children living with unfair situations, including poverty.)

So, again - thanks to Brooke. For those of you Lemonheads in the TO area; I hope to see you at the festival in September. And, to all of you - always remember: Life IS good (Lemonade is great...)

Life is Good, Lemonade is great!

2009-02-16T11:42:00.004-05:00

Life really is good, isn’t it? Well, I live in Ontario (Canada), and it’s Family Day – nothing like a stat holiday! Today is a day when families - however you define them - should spend some quality time together and enjoy the simple things. And, I also want to wish a Happy President’s Day to all the American Lemonheads…

I felt that, since spring is in the air, it was time to keep the good vibes going and offer another feature:

Life is Good. I discovered Life is Good by accident one day preparing for a kayaking trip… I had been vetoed from wearing my kayaking bucket hat, so I had to purchase a new one. Lo’ and behold, upon visiting the outdoor gear store, I saw a stunning paddling baseball-style hat. When I turned to look at the back, there he was: Jake smiling at me and letting me know that, well, Life is Good!

Since then, I’ve spent a lot of time discovering this Little Brand that Could; here’s a quick synopsis:

Two brothers: Bert & John Jacobs. In 1989, these guys made a few tee-shirts, travelled the East Coast of the US to sell the tees and make a few bucks. They didn’t make much money and didn’t know much about the business. In 1994, when they got back from a, um, unproductive road-trip, they discovered the answer to their success on their apartment wall: Jake’s grin letting them know that Life is Good. Bert & John designed Jake tees, introduced them to retailers, and the brand took off.

But, Life is Good isn’t just a brand of clothing… As part of this optimistic movement, the Life is Good Kids Foundation, through dedicated clothing items and festivals, supports amazing charities that create a lasting impact on children facing unfair challenges, including trauma of violence, poverty and loss. Since it's clear that charities providing the tangible support (i.e. food, clothing, education) need resources to make this happen, then the LiG Foundation makes a real difference - another connector! (So far, over $4M raised to help kids facing these challenges.)

Their events offer hope and opportunity for so many across the US - and they are slowly but surely expanding internationally, including in Canada. In fact, it's first Life is Good Festival outside of the US will happen in TO this summer (2009).

This company makes me remember how much the simple things are often the ones that make the biggest difference… If you haven’t yet discovered them, I encourage you to do so. It's always easy to share a smile, like Jake's, and to help others see opportunities.

And remember, Life is Good… Lemonade is great! :-)

Feature Conductor: Big Brothers & Big Sisters

2009-02-11T13:56:00.003-05:00

I’ve spent a significant amount of time in the first series of posts setting the stage for why this blog, and being aware of this issue is important. I’d like to spend some time in the next few posts highlighting some real success stories, and offering some options to those of you interested in contributing to the solution.

Feature: Big Brothers & Big Sisters (BBBS)

BBBS America and BBBS Canada have been around for over a century! In 1904, a New York City clerk named Ernest Coulter saw the need for adult mentors to help young boys stay out of trouble; he started recruiting volunteers. At around the same time, a group called Ladies of Charity began a similar program for young girls. Since then, the BBBS movement has grown to include all 50 states, and 12 countries around the world.

In Canada, for over 80 years, the BBBS program commits to young people that they will provide them with the highest quality, volunteer-based mentoring programs.

Here are some interesting facts that intimately link the successes of BBBS to the purpose of the Lemontree (Source – Project Impact, Social Planning Council of Hamilton and District of Hamilton, 2004):

The BBBS Littles* go on to graduate from high school at a rate of 20% higher than the national average;

78% of the BBBS Littles who come from social assistance background no longer rely on this kind of income; and

A disproportionately high number of Littles graduate from college and/or university compared to others in their age group

* A Little is a young person who has a Big Brother or Big Sister.

The BBBS programs clearly provide hope through rich mentoring relationships for all children who need it. In addition, these volunteer mentors offer encouragement, advice and additional learning. It is a truly fantastic program, and one I would qualify as a connector. Take another look at that second bullet point: a very real impact on the future of poverty in Canada; and no doubt in the US.

If you are interested, the BBBS movement is always looking for volunteers and donations... And, if you’d like to inject a little fun – here’s something you can do with your own Littles:

From now until the end of May, right across Canada, the various BBBS agencies are putting on the

Bowl for Kids’ Sake event. Create a team, set up an event, go out and bowl – and just have some fun for a great cause! If you want to bring the fam, look for the Family Day events. I, for one, will be checking out the event listings and heading out to at least one...

George Brown College: Contributing to solving poverty in Toronto

2009-02-08T20:26:00.006-05:00

OK, so the posting has been sporadic, at best, so far in 09. I’ll give you a little background because I feel like the Lemonheads deserve the right to know...

Since the beginning of the year, I’ve started teaching a management class at one of the local colleges in downtown Toronto. It takes a significant amount of time to prep classes and grade papers... but it is so important to help people learn and achieve their dreams.

This isn’t just any college: George Brown College – a renowned Chef School in Toronto and a great contributor to conductors and connectors.

By nature, a Chef School would likely have excess food and ingredients. As such, the school has partnered with Second Harvest: a pretty original concept in Toronto. This organization’s work is picking up excess foods in the area, and redistributing it to social service agencies in the hopes of eliminating hunger in the community – a fantastic conductor. So, at the end of every day, Second Harvest visits GB College and picks up its excess food. What a far cry from the days when excess food was simply thrown out after it had gone to waste...

But, that’s not all! GB’s Chef School also worked out a partnership with Regent Park – Canada’s oldest social housing community (circa 1948) – another connector. GB works with the youth of the community to teach them basic cooking skills. What an amazing link to provide education and basic life skills to those who need it most... not to mention, a little hope and aspiration, maybe?

Are we done yet? Nope – not at all... Still in collaboration with Regent Park, GB is participating in a Pathways to EducationTM program. This is an amazing program focused on ensuring that young people from at-risk communities get to school, stay in school and graduate from school. Pathways works as a connector here providing tutoring, mentoring, financial support specifically focused on getting kids to school and bringing parents, teachers and kids together with community agencies.

I am truly proud to have a (small) part with George Brown College. This is a great example on how small contributions make a big difference.

Ripples in the water...

If you know of others who should be highlighted, let me know.

Are you ready for some football? Kurt Warner's comeback from abuse & poverty

2009-02-01T11:54:00.005-05:00

Today marks the 43rd time that 2 teams from the NFL meet up to take (American) football’s biggest prize: the Super Bowl. As millions of people, world-wide watch the game (and the pre/post game activity), probably half will cheer for the Pittsburgh Steelers and half, for the Arizona Cardinals. Whoever you cheer for, know this: many of the players that we are watching today have come up from nothing but a dream...

Throughout this blog, I’ve talked about poverty and its direct link with lack of education. I’ve shown how people growing up in poverty have a lesser desire or ability for desire toward education; and I’ve also shown how those who’ve had little education or lack of opportunity to education, have often ended up living in poverty.

Merriam Webster’s dictionary defines poverty as the state of one who lacks a usual or socially acceptable amount of money or material possessions. According to our societal beliefs, poverty is the lack of the basic necessities of life: food, shelter and clothing. I’d like to argue (I know – those of you who know me are simply shocked) that the definition of poverty should be extended beyond the tangible and include a definition describing lack of hope, opportunity and ability to seize chances.

Malcolm Gladwell, in his book

Outliers, argues that society may have its “heroes” concept a little backwards. Many of our real life “heroes” are those who’ve overcome insurmountable odds to achieve a dream, a fantasy that many of us have imagined, if only once in our lives. But according to Mr. Gladwell, where we may be mistaken is that these heroes have been given opportunity: they’ve been in the right place at the right time; and that’s not something we are all blessed with. Maybe these heroes had one coach, one mentor, one teacher who saw the potential and gave them their big break... Or, maybe they were born on the right date to make the cut off for the team. Mr. Gladwell does acknowledge though that sometimes, these heroes really broke all the moulds to make their own destiny. And so, I’d like to introduce you to Kurt Warner – the Arizona Cardinals’ 37-year old quarterback...

Kurt Warner grew up with his mother, Sue and brother, Matt in northern Iowa... When his parents divorced, Kurt blamed his mom and in order to hurt her, he would hurt himself – often holding his breath until he would pass out. Sue remarried in 1981 to a man who was abusive to the kids and to her. Choosing her children over her new husband, Sue divorced and the three-some lived in poverty – struggling to keep the lights on!

Kurt turned to sports – football, in particular. He worked his way through flag football leagues, and when he got to 7th grade, he told his mother he would be a wide receiver for the Dallas Cowboys. He was heartbroken when his coach told him he was over the weight limit for his dream position, so he played the offensive line – and hated it. Rather than quitting, he stuck it out and learned – hoping for his big break.

After a great high school career, Kurt waited for scholarships – they never came. He lowered his sights and accepted a partial scholarship at Northern Iowa University – but was only back up until his senior year. He wasn’t invited to NFL try-outs...

In his last year of college, he met his future wife, Brenda – an ex-marine who grew up in an abusive household and who had a previously abusive marriage. She had 2 children – one of whom had brain damage from being dropped on his head when he was younger. Choosing to focus on his love and new family, Kurt moved back to Iowa to live with Brenda and her parents. In order to help with the bills, Kurt worked at the local Hy-Vee grocery store stocking shelves for $5.50 an hour.

Kurt’s football career was brought back to life with the Iowa Barnstormers, an Arena Football League team asked him to play for them in 1994. His AFL career was marked with brilliance until 1996 – before the season started a tornado ripped through Waterloo, Iowa and killed Brenda’s parents. Kurt’s ’96 season was a fog – and he was benched after 5 straight losses.

Now, let’s fast-forward Kurt’s career through a resuscitation of his AFL career, a stint in Amsterdam with NFL Europe and a plethora of teams as starter and back up QB: Warner is in his 3rd Super Bowl appearance today as the Cardinals’ starting QB. (FYI – Kurt got the starting position only after the number 1 QB, Matt Leinart, got injured.)

No matter how hard Kurt Warner had to work to achieve his dreams – he never gave up hope. Despite his hardships, Kurt was always wealthy with hope. And, he always promised to give back. Warner’s foundation:

the First things first foundation shares experiences and provides opportunities to encourage everyone that all things are possible when you put first things first.

On behalf of Lemonheads – we wish Warner the best for Super Bowl XLIII... If it were up to me, we’d make Kurt an honorary Lemonhead!

Now – to go back to Malcolm Gladwell’s concept of heroes being blessed by opportunity... Since not everyone is blessed with these opportunities, I encourage you to always share opportunities.

Be the change you want to see in the world.

Mahatma Ghandi

Conductors & connectors

2009-01-25T21:11:00.003-05:00

Would you like to know the results of poll #2? Well, 66% of you would have given up laundry detergent, 33% of you would have given up shampoo, and none of you would have given up soap or toothpaste!

If you haven’t already, I really recommend you take the survey undertaken by the Daily Bread Foodbank; it’s quite insightful. You might be surprised what you say you’d live without and what you really can’t live without. Ah, the things we take for granted...

You know, one of the things I find interesting about our society as a whole – and, let me preface, this is my opinion only – is that we are really good, great in fact, at looking at problems and solving them. When faced with a crisis, our society comes together and, so it feels, makes miracles happen!

But, what happens when problems repeat themselves? I mean, with our ability to come together, we get really, really good at solving “chronic problems”! Perhaps we become more effective, more efficient. I wonder, however, if we could stop the issues from coming back in the first place?

Through this blog, I’ve shown (and will continue to show) a number of places, causes, societies, groups, and organizations that come together and help with food or shelter for people living in poverty. I call these people conductors; like the orchestra conductor. These people are in charge of the orchestra – they make music, the foundation of the show. Without the services they provide, many people would likely not be able to even start the day.

What our society is lacking is what I call connectors – the people in charge of linking the music with the entire show. (We have actors: you and I are part of the show, as well as the remainder of the 7 billion+ people who live on this planet.)

The world already has some great connectors: Monarch School, the Harlem Children’s Zone, and Chris Gardner. I’m sure I have missed many... I will continue to research and bring more to you.

It is just in my humble opinion that we are much better at conducting the orchestra than we are at putting on a show. I suggest we take some steps forward. Over the course of this year, I intend not only to show conductors and connectors that already exist, but also show how we can actually become these people.

In the meantime, I’ll leave you with words from Mahatma Ghandi: be the change you want to see in the world... (And, here are The Top Ten Things to Think About if You Want to Change the World.)

Marked in history: January 20th, 2009

2009-01-20T17:07:00.003-05:00

It is absolutely impossible to let a day of this historical stature go by with making note of it. Today marks the day that the first African-American President takes office – the 44th President in the history of the United States. But President Obama is more than just another President; he is a “symbol”. God willing, President Obama will follow through on the energy and dedication we’ve seen for almost 2 years now; and we will witness, over the next 4 years (perhaps 8) the true power of a symbol.

In light of this blog, and in light of the issue of poverty, the First Family will be more than just a symbol…

• Meet Barack
• Meet Michelle

Among many critical issues that President Obama must address, he has not hesitated to put Poverty and Education on his agenda.

On behalf of the Lemonheads, congratulations Mr. President!

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Poll update - thanks to those of you who voted in poll #1.

FYI:
• 50% of you said you would miss your weekly spending money;
• 25% of you said you would miss your cell phone (mobile, PDA, BB); and
• 25% of you said you would miss your computer (with Internet).

Continue voting…

In the next post, I’ll share some actions we’re taking to bring these ideas to life and continue driving awareness around the issue. I’ll also discuss the issue of poverty’s impact on literacy and some events you may want to check out.

Baby, it's cold outside... Some people don't have warm clothes!

2009-01-16T15:09:00.003-05:00

Are you cold? Lord knows I am!

If you are below 39°N of latitude, you may not be quite as frigid, but let me share some temperatures with you (including wind chill).

• Toronto: -25°C (-13°F)
• Montreal: -29°C (-20°F)
• New York, NY: -17°C (5°F)
• Washington, DC: -18°C (1°F)

So, say you wanted to go out in temperatures like this, you’d likely require: a good winter coat, and preferably a multi-layered one, a tuque, gloves, a scarf, maybe a few extra layers of clothes, and I’d also recommend a decent pair of boots. Wouldn’t you agree?

Unfortunately, in the cities mentioned above, there are so many people who do not have proper clothing; who might not have shelter; and who probably need something warm to eat. I encourage you to check out the local missions or food banks, the Salvation Army in the US or in Canada, and of course there are a plethora of other sources. They are all in need of donations; can you help?

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It’s funny – not “funny, ha-ha”, just funny interesting – to mention this today. I recall, a few weeks ago when the winter cold settled into the GTA, we had to buy scarves. When we did, Nichole turned to me and said: “OK, how do I do this?”

“Um, do what?” was my answer.

“Put this scarf on? I’ve never had one – so not really sure how this goes.”

WOW! The things we take for granted. I’m sure she could have figured out how to put it on, but when you have to rush through something you’ve never done, the simplest things seem so foreign.

Nichole never owned a pair of snow pants or water proof (resistant) boots; not even as a child. And, to be clear, she did not live in an area “below 39°N of latitude” so certainly, those pieces of winter clothing would have been welcomed!

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What does any of this “cold air” have to do with learning and generating hope? Well, a couple of things, among others…

First, if you are in the situation Nichole was in – or anyone who does not have proper food, shelter or clothing – what are the chances of success in school? It is proven that children who are hungry have weaker academic performances. The Children’s Emergency Fund gives us a few indications of what happens when children go to school hungry.

Secondly, if you have opportunities: a regular (reasonable) pay check, transportation, and a basic education (high school graduation), your chances are much higher that you can acquire the above-mentioned clothing for yourself and for your family.

Take a look at this survey from the Daily Food Bread food bank. The additional questions I would ask are: “Which of these do you have?” and “Which of these are you willing to give up?” I could, for example, see how one might think that something like “access to Internet” is not a mandatory requirement for surviving in Ontario, but are you willing to give it up? And, if you lost it, how would you feel?

We take so many things for granted, including (often times) the warmth of our homes and clothes. We are quick to judge what “basic needs” are without truly being willing to give up on things we consider “luxuries”. It’s time, this year, to give back… And, I would encourage you, in these frigid temperatures, to help keep people warm!

If people feel safe, warm, fed, and hopeful, they will be have more clarity to seek out, to identify, and to seize the opportunities which will allow them to become self-sufficient.

CLARIFIER:

I believe that if you work hard for something, you deserve it. I believe that no one should take that away from you. But, I also believe that if you’ve worked hard for something, you probably had an opportunity to work hard for it. Therefore, what I am saying here is not to give anything up, but rather to allow others the opportunity; to help them find it. If people have opportunities and do not seize them, then we’re having a different conversation altogether. However, in many instances of poverty and homelessness, people have simply not had opportunity, or have had opportunity taken away from them.

Job loss - The future of poverty

2009-01-09T19:22:00.002-05:00

Hooo-eeee! Any of you guys picked up a newspaper today?

• Canada’s jobless rate is up to 6.6% - a loss of 34,400 jobs in December alone!
• US experiences worst “job year” since 1945 (unemployment rate: 7.2%) – a loss of 524,000 in December alone (1.9 million in the last 4 months of 08).

Take another look at yesterday’s post: Poverty solutions. In that 3rd paragraph, I dared suggest how close we all were to living in poverty. I think you might agree – the numbers that came out this morning just reinforced that reality.

Since the millennium, world-wide groups have banded together begging governments to invest in ending poverty. We’ve seen some changes, but not very many. In fact, my hometown, Toronto, or rather its region, the GTA, has officially been dubbed: Ontario’s Child Poverty Capital. Now that is a legacy to behold! Take a look at a recent report released by the Children’s Aid Society of Toronto: Greater Trouble in the Greater GTA.

One of the numbers that blows me away in this report (and many of its facts are just shameful) is that a single parent with 2 children who makes less than $23,380 a year is considered to be living in poverty. Um… Is anyone reading this familiar with the cost of living in the GTA? That amount of money wouldn’t sustain a single parent of 2 cats! Absolutely sick. Whoever chose that number to be the one we should go with might want to attempt living on that income him/herself. What about the person making $25,000 or even $30,000 for that matter?

In every report, on every Website and in every article – when poverty is referred to, one of the recommendations is to invest in education – education for children, and for their parents. We know that jobs requiring a higher education tend to pay more, hence lifting the “owner of that job” out of the risk of poverty. What we should also consider is that someone who has broad education may be more versatile in times like the ones we are experiencing these days.

OK – so, we can’t change the recession. (Where is “I dream of Genie” when you need her. C’mon, just blink your eyes once!) But what if we said: Now is the time to invest in education. Now is the time to lift people out of their poverty. Now is the time to give people hope for a brighter future. Now is the time, and education is the way!

We have to make a change!

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Take a look at Marty’s comment in the previous post… There’s a lot of truth there: enjoy those institutions of arts and culture; we can learn a lot. Many, in fact, give back to the community and support the causes we refer to in this blog.

Housepaint, for example, is an exhibit currently on at the ROM (click on Exhibitions & Galleries). Housepaint brings together exceptional “street artists” to showcase and commemorate homelessness and represents it through graffiti, or street art. An “out of the box” exhibit for the ROM, to be sure, but one that is so important and draws together the value of arts to the cause of poverty.

What I’d like to add to Marty’s comment is that the learning doesn’t only come from “arts and culture”. It comes from people’s talents and passions. Everyone has talent and passion: for some it’s the arts, for some sports, for some it could be cooking. The point is, we need to encourage people who are living in poverty – heck, we need to encourage each other – to find those niches of passion and lose themselves in the learning and the hope that comes from it.

Learning expands our ability to hope; hope gives us direction; direction gives us purpose; and purpose can pull us out of our darkest hours…

Sometimes hope is in the journey;
The destination never comes.
It’s not about left or right;
It’s not about right or wrong.

Sometimes hope is in the movement;
The destination doesn’t matter.
It’s not about where you land;
It’s that you bothered.

Sometimes hope is all we have;
The destination is a dream.
It’s about when you’re awake,
And a safe place for you to sleep.

Sometimes hope is the answer;
The destination is the guide.
It’s about making the right choice;
It’s about taking the ride.

Sometimes hope…

- Judi Samuels
January 9, 2009

Poverty solutions could help the economic crisis

2009-01-08T15:04:00.003-05:00

According to financial advisors – at least, those I spoke with in early 08 and in 07 – a person is considered “rich” when they have saved 3 months worth of their salary, not including RSPs. (For any American readers, an RSP – Retirement Savings Plan – is a Canadian version of a 401K… kinda.) I’m just curious, and I’m also well aware that no answers will actually be given, but think about how many people you know who actually have that amount of money set aside… I would guess it’s not very many, if any. Now, turn on the TV or read the newspaper or check out your favourite Website’s newsfeed, and it doesn’t quite take a genius to know that there’s a pretty grim economic situation “out there”.

• People are getting laid off: In a strange and twisted way, it’s better than quitting or being fired because it gives you the opportunity to seek government assistance. But – in a crazy cycle – this would then put the government back into more debt…
• Banks aren’t lending (although, apparently in Canada, they’re going to start again): But credit isn’t exactly the best solution.
• Businesses are closing doors or going bankrupt.
• Stock markets are crashing – so, watch those RSPs and 401Ks!

In short: it’s ugly. And if you’re not one of those “rich” people (see above), losing your job may mean you could be about 2-3 weeks away from living in poverty… I’m sorry; I don’t mean to scare the pants off you (please, it's too cold - keep them on), but it’s a reality we live in.

Why did I bring this up? And, why so early in a New Year when we are all suppose to be chipper with positive vibes and grand intentions?

I bring it up because I think it’s important for all of us to be aware that the issue of poverty is not happening just to “other people” who have made mistakes. It could happen to anyone of us; and it could happen outside of this economic crisis. I bring it up because we need to seize this time as an opportunity to understand the importance and urgency of programs that make a real and significant impact in the lives of those who do live in poverty. We need to invest in them and make them work now. (Check out other posts for info on such programs.)

If you’re not a softie and you need more hardened facts, let’s go back to the “Coordination Team” post. If we can take people living in poverty, provide them with the skills needed, they can help fill the gaps in the shortage of labour issue. If we teach the new skills (for example renewable energy vs. coal) then we create a generation ready for the next challenge. And, if we do this with more people – meaning more people in more jobs getting paid – then we can let the people inject money back into the economy. Ever heard of supply and demand?

Don’t raise your eyebrow(s)! (The plural possibility is because I don’t know what kind of frowner you are…) I’m not suggesting that this is going to be an overnight success, nor am I suggesting that this is a miracle cure. I’m simply suggesting that this might be something we want to explore.

We’re bailing out the car industry – to the tune of multiple billions of dollars. We’re bringing down interest rates and attempting to increase accessibility to credit – because of course, indebting the nation even further will no doubt help us in the long run. (Please note the sarcasm.) So why can’t we focus on the people and give them a genuine opportunity to make a difference in their lives, in the future of their country, and – who knows, in the future of the world? Notice the suggestion of giving opportunities, not fish.

Did you know that there are 293 ways to make change for $1.00? Then, there must be as many ways - if not more - to positively impact the world we live in. If so, then I'd like to count the ideas proposed in this blog as some of the possible ways to have a real impact in the lives of those living in poverty, in our communities and in our countries.

(Check out www.thestar.com/poverty for some news on how Ontario is planning to deal with the issue of poverty. Got comments and ideas, let me know!)

Psst… Digg it!

A "Zone" of Hope for Harlem's Children

2009-01-07T14:09:00.005-05:00

Don’t Blame Me

The girl’s mother said, “Don’t blame me.
Her father left when she was three.
I know she don’t know her ABCs, her 1,2,3s,
But I am poor and work hard you see.”
You know the story, it’s don’t blame me.

The teacher shook her head and said,
“Don’t blame me, I know it’s sad.
He’s ten, but if the truth be told,
He reads like he was six years old.
And math, don’t ask.
It’s sad you see.
Wish I could do more, but it’s after three.
Blame the mom, blame society, blame the system.
Just don’t blame me.”

The judge was angry, his expression cold.
He scowled and said, “Son you’ve been told.
Break the law again and you’ll do time.
You’ve robbed with a gun.
Have you lost your mind?”
The young man opened his mouth to beg.
“Save your breath,” he heard instead.
“Your daddy left when you were two.
Your momma didn’t take care of you.
Your school prepared you for this fall.
Can’t read, can’t write, can’t spell at all.
But you did the crime for all to see.
You’re going to jail, son.
Don’t blame me.”

If there is a God or a person supreme,
A final reckoning, for the kind and the mean,
And judgment is rendered on who passed the buck,
Who blamed the victim or proudly stood up,
You’ll say to the world, “While I couldn’t save all,
I did not let these children fall.
By the thousands I helped all I could see.
No excuses, I took full responsibility.
No matter if they were black or white,
Were cursed, ignored, were wrong or right,
Were shunned, pre-judged, were short or tall,
I did my best to save them all.”
And I will bear witness for eternity
That you can state proudly,
“Don’t blame me.”

‐ By Geoffrey Canada
February 2007

Geoffrey Canada grew up in the South Bronx, in a neighbourhood notorious for poverty and for crime. He was gifted with academic success, despite the surroundings, and dedicated his career to helping those who are faced with similar challenges he once knew. In a very personal account, he speaks about the rise in violence in the US. His book: Fist Stick Knife Gun (link on the right menu) is his story, meshed with society’s impact on the rise of violence.

Since 1990, Geoffrey Canada has been the President and CEO of the

Harlem’s Children Zone. The “Zone”, as it has come to be known, has seen, and helped with, issues like truancy, crack, and “open-air drugs”. The “Zone” offers support to all families including schooling and career coaching. The “Zone’s” philosophy: Whatever it takes!

The bottom line is that if you want to take a child living in poverty and give them a real chance in the world – it isn’t about just one program. It’s about transcending the source of the issues, overcoming the challenges – continuously – until that child has graduated from college and can progress into “middle-class” without slipping back into the life of poverty they were born into. So many programs (as I mentioned before in this blog) have time-specific help… we give them fish. And boy, are we good at “fish giving”! But, like Geoffrey Canada, we need to find ways to teach them how to fish, and then we have to find ways to make sure they never forget.

President Clinton said: “I wish every city had a Geoffrey Canada....His vision of a renewed Harlem community, and his accomplishments toward achieving it, attest to the power we all have to overcome poverty and hopelessness in America." (Dare I say, North America?)

When I worked at the Canadian Tourism Commission, we once had a campaign which stated: The World could use a little more Canada. After learning more about Geoffrey, I would agree. Wouldn’t you?

Whether you are Canadian or not, you can be the one who injects a little more Canada into the world… I’d love to hear what you’re doing. You can click on the “comments” link at the end of this post, or send me an e-mail at: thelemonheads@rogers.com. I’ll include some of your stories in the blog too.

Don't forget to Digg the blog (right-hand menu)

The very sour link between poverty, lack of education, drugs and death...

2009-01-03T22:35:00.006-05:00

Happy New Year and welcome back…

It is 2009 and as is customary (in my world) I hope you’ve made some good resolutions for the year. I’ve made a few: I’ve planned them and on day 3 of the New Year I’ve already started on a few. The big one is to increase awareness about the issue of poverty, and in particular its link to lack of education, throughout my circle of influence.

I am currently working on a program I plan to implement once the snow melts. It involves a GPS and various geographic coordinates throughout North America. I’ll keep you posted, but here’s the clue: ever heard of Geocaching? (Yes, there will be a very clear link and application to the blog topic.)

Now – let’s get back to Nichole and her family. It’s been too long and I apologize for the lag in getting back to this story. Though Nichole has told me many of her experiences, I don’t know them all intimately. She is ready and willing to share the stories, but she needed a little break. It’s not easy to reminisce on this type of life; and even harder for someone who may have a little of what I call survivor’s guilt. (Nichole wonders, at times, why her? Why did she have the chance to get out?)

CAUTION: The following content contains mature subjects.

Four years ago, Nichole’s brother Alex, died. He was 35 years old.

Alex grew up just like his sisters. He was the only boy and once their father left, he was also the man of the house. Shouldn't every 8 year old be the man of the house? He would help clean, he would discipline his sisters, he would take care of himself and his mother – just as a father would… but Alex had a problem of getting in trouble at school, and sometimes getting kicked out. In the US, if you are under 18 and out of school you end up in juvie. Alex learned that one at a really young age...

At the age of 10, his mother told him that his next offense would lead him straight to living with his father. Sure enough, young Alex got into yet another fight and got suspended. Nichole’s mom packed his bags and drove him to his father’s – he was dropped off at the door. It took two years of Alex’s rebellious behavior to get him into trouble so big that his father greeted him with a swift “punch in the face”! His mom was quickly at the door to pick up her son and bring him home.

Alex never had a role model, and never had discipline. He didn’t always have meals, and when he did, they were rarely healthy. His behavior made him lose his football privileges. At the age of 12, this boy was losing more than he had before – which wasn’t very much to begin with; he wanted a normal life…

He didn’t graduate high school, but did get trained to be an electrician. The money was good enough to buy the drugs that made life easier - "weed", "coke", heroin, among others. He bought drugs; he used drugs; he sold drugs… (To quote Nichole: “There is more to this story, but I don’t know everything. And, I never want to.”)

May I state the obvious? Drugs lead to addictions, and addictions are generally bad news! In order to make more money for drugs, Alex decided to run his own business… He started overcharging, and one of his clients noticed. He was writing checks to himself – from other people; those people noticed. Someone called him in! Alex was arrested and went to prison.

While doing his time, Alex finished his GED. It appeared that he had a second chance… He was released at the age of 35... back into the world he knew.

One Saturday morning in April 06, Penny went to visit her brother… He wouldn’t answer the knock on the door. She knelt down by the window of his sub-ground apartment and peered inside to see Alex, lying on the couch motionless. Penny ran into the building and broke down his door. He had tissues in his nose, full of blood, and he was grey. Alex was dead!

He had been battling pneumonia and taking the meds; he was drinking with friends the night before; he was taking diet pills (the same that Anna Nicole Smith was taking); and he was taking Vicodin. Big news – those things don’t mix!
The vicious circle is perpetuated - fatally... If little Alex, at the age of 10, had had the opportunities that you and I are familiar with, he may never have been lying dead on his couch at the age of 35. Now, Alex will never have that chance.

You and I do. Yyou and I have the opportunity to make a difference in the lives of 10 year olds we know, and even some we don’t. Check out organizations like: Street Kids International, Big Brothers or Big Sisters, and Mentoring.

Make 2009 one to remember; make a difference.

Happy New Year!

2008-12-31T13:58:00.003-05:00

If you are reading this post (or following this blog), I have dubbed you "Lemonheads". I apologize if this in any way, shape or form offends any of you - it is simply meant as a play on words...

As such, I would like to wish all of you Lemonheads (and your families) a very safe New Year's eve, and the very best for 2009.

Tonight, I hope you take a moment to appreciate the friends and family in your life. Take a moment to appreciate what surrounds you: your home, the food on the table, the clothes on your back. Remember that one time in your life when you might have struggled to get to the next step. Remember that most important lesson that will be with you forever.

Tonight, look back on 2008 and recall the easiest times and the most difficult ones. In all of those moments, we learned something and grew. Remember the moments you shared a lesson with someone else; remember when you did one kind thing for a stranger.

Tonight, remember the year that was... The Chinese say "may you live in interesting times", and we sure do! A global economic upheaval, the first African-American president of the USA, and crazy politics "North of 49". Remember C.W. Jeffries; remember more natural disasters than we care to think about; and remember the people who are sleeping outside tonight.

Tomorrow: Make a difference! It's a brand new day, and a brand new year.

To all of you, the very best for '09. Stay tuned to the Lemon Tree for some more ideas and some action to be taken in the year to come!

Judi

chief lemonhead

We can play online with the world, so why can’t we eliminate poverty?

2008-12-30T12:05:00.002-05:00

The human race is simply an amazing group of “beings”. If you’re reading this post, you already know that we’ve come a long way from, say, the invention of the Ford Model-T. A long way, indeed, wouldn’t you say, since now the automobile industry is in need of $70 billion bailouts!

But, beyond these inventions – or rather, in addition to these inventions – humans have an amazing ability to mobilize hordes of people to do something. Do you or any of your friends have a Playstation (2 or 3), an Xbox 360, or a Wii? If so, it is quite likely that the owner of the aforementioned gaming console might occasionally (and sometimes more than occasionally) connect to the Internet via the console and play some game with other people around the world. Yup, you can sit in your living room in Tacoma, Washington, for example, and play “Call of Duty” with someone in Tallinn, Estonia. These aren’t things people really think about, but if you do, I’d say that’s pretty impressive! In April 08, NPD Group released the results of a gaming study which stated that 72% of Americans play video games, with 42% of them playing online.

For the “marketing and consumer” world, apparently that 42% is a small number, but let’s do the math, shall we:

Population of US online gamers
Population: 305,519,012
% of gamers: 72%
Total# of gamers: 219,973,689
% of online gamers: 42%
Total# of online gamers: 92,388,949

Population number provided by US Census Bureau

Wow! Now, I work in marketing, and I can totally understand that the goal is to “grow your market”. In my world, if I could access over 92 million people, I wouldn’t be scoffing at that. Ninety-two million Americans play video games online. If each of those people gave 1 penny - $0.01 – we would raise $923,889.49 USD.

OK, let’s bring that number back to the “Lemon Tree” concept… I’ve made a couple of assumptions here. Let’s assume a family of 4 needs about $800/month for food. It may sound like a lot, but next time you go to the grocery store, look at prices considering what you would really want to feed your children. Let’s assume this family makes slightly over the “line of poverty”. They won’t get food stamps, so they will spend the bulk of their budget on the food. Wouldn’t it be amazing to put that $800 back into their pockets for other expenses like, say, electricity, heat, laundry detergent or rent??

Check this out! With the $923,889.49 USD we could raise by getting a single penny from each of Americas online gamers, we could feed 96 families in the US! OK, so 96 families – yippee doo-dah, right? It’s 96 more than we had an option to help before; and that’s with only 1 penny! Make it a buck, and you get to help 9,624 families. That’s only in the US. Last I checked Canadians were even more into online gaming (per capita). I bet we could make a little bit of a dent into our poverty challenge in North America, don’t you think?

Alright, I’ve made my point… now, how can we begin collecting this cash, and making sure it gets to the right people?

A box of Lemons

2008-12-27T16:33:00.003-05:00

OK, so it’s been a few days (4 to be exact) since I’ve posted… Hey, it was Christmas/Hanukkah in our household, and so we celebrated. I hope each of you enjoyed a great few days of holiday-ing with friends and families.

Now, we are all experiencing the myriad commercials about how every single store in the world has just THE best Boxing Week sales… You could get anything you want for a fraction of the price! Honestly, that is great news considering the economy. But, guess what? Boxing Day has nothing to do with shopping and sales!

Originally, Boxing Day - the first weekday after Christmas Day - was observed as a holiday "on which postmen, errand boys, and servants of various kinds received a Christmas box of contributions from those whom they serve". (Charles Dickens) In England – say, mid nineteenth century – many people living under the level of poverty would also go door-to-door with empty boxes and would receive leftover Christmas sweets, food and money.

On Christmas Eve, we drove to Nathan Phillips’ Square (downtown Toronto)… I wanted to see where I had learned to skate. All the people were enjoying their friends’ and families’ company; kids and grown-ups were taking in the “Cavalcade of Light”; and I can only imagine how many people were wanting to sample the french fries from the vendors (they did smell good).

Right across the street, however, 3 people were lying over the sidewalk grates that gave onto the subway below. This is where so many spend their Christmas nights, and probably most of their nights through the year! They were sleeping, but could probably smell the food too… I wondered what they might have had for dinner. It wasn’t Boxing Day yet, but they got a little something they would find when they woke up. They’d be able to get themselves breakfast. I still felt pretty empty though, because I know that it’s not enough – and it shouldn't just be something we do at this time of the year.

I was hoping to be able to share some photos with you, but not quite yet. The weather has been “non-conducive to picture taking”, but we still have some time before we get back to work. We’re still working on the photo exposé…

In the meantime, I would love to hear your Christmas, Hanukkah, Kwanza and/or Boxing Day stories. Click on the “comments” link below and let me know…

For us, we’ve committed to an annual “Christmas Deed”. But, the purpose of the Lemon Tree is still to find a way to generate a more long-lasting impact on poverty – through hope & education.

Do you have a Lemon Tree or a Christmas Tree?

2008-12-23T21:59:00.002-05:00

And so this is Christmas, and what have we done?

It’s Christmas – well, 22 hours to Christmas – and most of us are sitting safe at home, wondering what’s in the boxes wrapped under the tree. What’s on your mind right now? (I realize that’s a stupid question since you’re reading this…)

Over 13 million children in the US and another million and a half children in Canada are wondering why they don’t even have a Christmas tree; or, if they do, they wonder if Santa will even come by… (Numbers from www.freethechildren.com and The National Center for Children in Poverty) To quote Billy, the lonely boy in The Polar Express – “Christmas just doesn’t work out (for some people)…”

For Nichole’s family, Christmas was not always as glamorous as what you and I might recall. To begin, Nichole’s mom relied on receiving a Welfare check on time to ensure that the children (3 of them) would get gifts. There was a Christmas tree, there were some decorations. The gifts usually consisted of clothing: jogging pants, sweatshirts – that’s what was needed. To create an appearance of “more gifts”, jogging suits and outfits were separated and each piece was wrapped separately. Christmas was one of only 2 times of the year when new clothes were a possibility; the other time being the beginning of the school year.

One year, Nichole’s mom even had to go to the County Welfare office to pick up a box of food… Food stamps only last so long; and you can be certain that providing a good Christmas meal for your family might just tap out the stamps!

What do you think about or wish for “When Christmas comes to town”?

Now, this post isn’t meant to make you sad, or make you feel guilty. You shouldn’t… I believe that you get what you get because you’ve worked hard for it. It’s not always everything you’ve ever wanted – but, we should be grateful. That’s what this post is for… to highlight that we are likely doing OK in the great scheme of things. And, if we’re not OK today, chances are we are blessed with the ability to hope that things will get better.

Enjoy your Christmas, your Hannukah - or whichever holiday you are celebrating. Appreciate every moment you have with friends and family. And, when you have a chance – share the joy. Magic happens when we Believe.

A different kind of "Butterfly Garden"

2008-12-20T18:57:00.007-05:00

When Nichole was in grade 9, she had severe back problems. She missed more school then she was allowed to but received doctor’s notes for justification. In some US states, students need to receive up to 4 “credits” between grades 7 and 9 to be granted entry into high school and begin grade 10. Nichole received 3.5 credits…

After a few months in grade 10, Nichole was called into the high school counsellor’s office. This counsellor informed Nichole that she was revoking her 3.5 credits since she had missed too many school days in grade 9. Nichole argued that the doctor’s notes were provided. The doctor’s notes were not on file and Nichole’s mother hadn’t kept them in a safe place. According to the counsellor, if Nichole wanted to stay in school, she had to prove the reason behind the absences.

Nichole was faced with peer pressures and influences. Some days, she wouldn’t go to school because there were no clean clothes. Some days, she went to school to be picked on because of tattered clothing or out-of-style clothes. Nichole was too embarrassed to bring any friends home for fear of finding her mother drunk. Food was scarce, and certainly wasn’t healthy.

When she realized that there was no way to recover the missing doctor’s notes; Nichole dropped out of high school… With what surrounded her, and the challenges she faced just to be in school, she didn't see a good ending to staying (or trying to stay) in school.

There are days now, when Nichole’s nephews are given permission to stay home because their mother (Penny) is too tired to get up and get them ready. What will happen to them when it is time for them to go to high school?

I'd like to introduce you to Sandra McBrayer . In 1987, Ms. McBrayer founded and developed the first successful school in the United States for homeless and unattended youth, serving as head teacher for the Homeless Outreach School (now known as Monarch High School) in San Diego until 1996.

You need to check out the Monarch School; the evolution of the school Sandra McBrayer founded. Please go through this Website and get to know the school. Monarch School provides the basics, the education and the programs. Their program recognizes all the issues that people who are homeless or living in poverty face, including abuse, hunger, and no place to take a simple shower. Their program provides equal education to their students; many of whom graduate and get scholarships to continue their studies. Their programs also provide assistance after graduation, and provide additional "normal events" such as birthday parties or graduation ceremonies. Kids are allowed to be kids...

Monarch School is the only one of its kind in North America… Their mantra: to restore hope and unleash dreams. This is one idea I would love to see expanded more broadly throughout. Imagine the impact of such a school in the Bronx, or in the “Jane and Finch” neighbourhood of Toronto.

I say it’s time to create a new version of “Butterfly Gardens”…

Link to Youthworks

2008-12-19T07:21:00.004-05:00

A quick apology for not having posted yesterday, but we are now on "holiday hours". All that really means is that we are running around trying to get errands done before we get into the Christmas week.

During this special time, where people are encouraged to celebrate with friends and families, share in meals, presents and the "spirit of giving", I wanted to provide you with a link that I hold close to my heart.

When I worked at Direct Energy, we had the luxury of supporting a great cause called "Raising the Roof". This charity helps solve the critical issue of homelessness. In 2006, Raising the Roof launched "Youthworks", a program specifically focused on eliminating homelessness at the beginning - not the end. There are approximately 65,000 young people who have no place to call "home"; not because they got angry and ran away, but because they had no choice. If you take a close look at the program's initiatives, you will notice that one of their main goals is to ensure proper access to education for these youth. The link between "poverty and homelessness" and "education and opportunity" is so strong!

In this time of celebration, I encourage everyone to do one special deed to promote hope to all those who are not quite as fortunate.

I'll be back later tonight with the next installation of the Lemon Tree.

Thanks again for your support and interest...

Judi

chief lemonhead

A Penny for your thoughts...

2008-12-16T20:45:00.009-05:00

Now, for a little more on Nichole’s family life… Today, I would like to introduce you to Penny - Nichole's older sister (by 4 years).

You’ll recall that Nichole's mother was working non-traditional hours, getting a very meagre pay, and when time permitted, imbibing to ignore the woes of the world. This left Penny with the role of "mother". Penny took care of Nichole and their older brother: cooking and cleaning in particular.

Nichole can remember Penny bathing her in the morning to get her ready for school. And, when Nichole was sick, Penny would spend time with her – making her soup, playing with her, and making sure she got the rest she needed. One of Nichole's fondest memory is of the 2 girls building tents in their room with their bedsheets and playing with their dolls. Then, the bottom went out again…

Pen’s vivid memory of her father leaving, the downturn her mother took, and the quick decent into poverty and despair scarred her. I suppose that’s not really surprising since it all started when she was 6!

Penny was a good student, focused on doing the right thing for herself and for her family. Penny concentrated on her cheerleading and her schooling until… At the age of 16, Penny started dating one of the high school basketball stars. By the time Pen was 17 she was pregnant and had to quit school to have and to take care of her baby. There was no one around to provide her with guidance, structure and discipline to help her understand and wade through the pressures she might face...

Aside from a broken family, no one provided any support required to a single, teenage mother. Even now, her “baby daddy” is still not paying any child support – and a lot is owed! The result: At the age of 17, Penny is trying to be a mother not only to her own baby, but to her siblings as well; and trying to make her own ends meet.

Just as Nichole’s mom turned to drinking as a way of forgetting the issues, Penny turned to men (though, I’m sure she thought she was turning to love). Anything to escape! Now 18 years later, Penny is the mother of 4 children from 3 different fathers. The poverty and despair cycle has been proliferated. Can you imagine what poverty is like with 4 kids!? How hard might it be to look at your children and encourage them, tell them they can achieve, when you haven't been able to see a glimpse of light yourself?

In the past 10 years, Penny married the father of her 2 youngest, whose drug addiction was rivalled only by his irresponsibility. By virtue of peer pressure and the desire to escape, she too got lured into the world of drug abuse. She even overdosed and luckily survived. Over time, she temporarily lost custody of her children. Her youngest boys (at the ages of 6 and 8) could tell you stories that no child – heck no adult – should ever have to know or see!

Today, Penny is slowly getting back on her feet, but there's still so much to do… She has tried to get her GED 4 times but has not been able to succeed. There are no accessible programs to help tutor her, and certainly not any that come with childcare! We can only wonder what might happen next.

Penny, as her mother before, is living in poverty supported by food stamps and welfare. Her children have had the luxury of witnessing these problems and the way in which they’ve been handled. When do you think the vicious cycle will end for this family? And, if it doesn’t end soon – what hope will the children have?

I deliberately omitted specific details of events due to the harsh and graphic nature of this reality.

Holiday schedule: 1 post every 2-3 days

2008-12-15T21:33:00.003-05:00

Hey Lemonheads!

I just wanted to inform you that, for the remainder of December (through the holidays), there will be 1 new post every 2-3 days. So, please check back in tomorrow (Tuesday, December 16) for a new post on Nichole's life.

In the meantime, check out: http://therottenlittlegirls.com/2008/10/15/blog-action-day-poverty-and-education-in-america/.

The week after Christmas, you can expect to see a photo exposé of the effects of poverty in some areas of Toronto.

Thanks again for your interest; I look forward to the next conversation.

Judi

chief lemonhead

Lemon Tree Idea Gallery – The Boulder Remover

2008-12-14T18:53:00.004-05:00

(Lemon Creek Glacier, Southern Alaska)

There is a philosophy in management studies which suggests that the key to being successful as a manager is to remove obstacles from the path of your teams, and then get out of the way to let them do what they’re good at. The obstacle in question is usually something within the internal operations of the business.

It has also been proven time and time again that employees who have less personally stress, strife and distraction contribute more significantly and more productively to the organization than those who have more. In fact, SAS, a research software development organization in Cary, NC has – for eleven consecutive years – been in the top 30 of Fortune’s Top 100 Best Companies to Work for in America. One of SAS’s successes during their 30+ years, is the way it treats its employees, including providing: onsite subsidized medical centres, onsite subsidized gourmet cafeterias, subsidized health and daycare programs, among others. SAS believes that by helping employees relieve their personal pre-occupations, they will have employees who contribute more to the success of the organization – and they do!

This doesn’t mean that people who have more personal issues aren’t as smart or as capable; rather, they are distracted. You might think that one should separate their personal life and work life. To a degree, I’ll agree with you. But what if the “distraction” is the concern of whether this week’s pay check will be enough to pay rent, bills and to put food on the table for your 2-year old? Do you still believe it’s easy to just leave the personal problems at home? To so many, these issues are like a boulder in the middle of the highway and you’re driving towards it at over 100mph (160km/h)!

What if we could expand these business theories and practices into society at large? We all want our communities to continue improving – so, let’s be a part of the movement!

Those boulders I referred to are usually major hope crushers for so many people living in poverty. They may want to change their lives, learn, grow, earn and stand on their own two feet, but these big huge rocks (among others) are in their way:
• Who is going to take care of the kids while I go to school and learn?
• If I study, and give up or reduce my salary for 6 months (the average amount of time required to get a certificate), how will I make ends meet?
• Even if I study part time to not give up my salary – can my body handle the demands and stresses?
• Even if I get a job, I can’t leave the kids because I still can’t afford daycare!
• Will I make it through? And, even if I do, what’s at the other end? What if it’s all for not?
To make matters worse, these rocks are next to impossible to budge – and these people are usually alone (remember the reliability issue in "Lemons have families too..."). So there’s no help to even try to move them. What would you do? Over time, most people give up. Voilà: hopelessness!

What if we could create a movement whose key goal is to remove these boulders from the paths of people who aren’t quite as privileged as many of us? Don’t worry about the “how” right now? Worry about the “who”… If we could all commit to “creating a world with no borders where everyone can have true equal opportunity to improve their life”, we would all find the right ways to budget, nudge and even remove these boulders.

Boulder Removing Experts

Here’s idea #2… and, to tell you the truth, I don’t think I’ve heard of this kind of program in existence. Imagine with me:

…An organization that people can turn to for support in order to remove boulders from their path when they want to work toward self-sufficiency. In order to qualify, you need to be willing to work with a counsellor/case worker who will evaluate your needs and ambitions. Let’s be clear – this group is not going to help you get a BMW! But if you work with them, you could be able to get your own.

Independently of what your problems are, this organization removes the boulders. You can get a job, but you can’t leave your children because you can’t pay for daycare: we’ll help you cover daycare. You realize it’s time to get a high school diploma because no matter how hard you try, you can’t get a full time job that pays enough to cover rent and the bills: we can help you get that diploma. You have been working for years in a basic paying job without benefits or savings and now you’ve been laid off: we’ll make it easier for you to find another job and bridge the gap.

You’ll notice that the “helps” provided are built to remove boulders. These individualized programs are temporary. You and your case worker build a plan and timeline together (which unto itself is a learning). Once the boulder is out of your way, and you’re on your way, we get out of your way and you live your life. The point is to get you to self-sufficiency, to teach you how to fish.

There are two small additions to the organization and its programs: 1/ if you want to stay in touch, you are always welcome; and 2/ please pay it forward.

What do you think?

It may sound like welfare – but, I’d like to think it’s better. If this is what welfare is supposed to be then I apologize to those who created the welfare programs. I would suggest that those programs get better managed. I know people who live on welfare, and they really don’t believe there’s a way out. They almost seem to think that it’s going to be “welfare forever”.

In the meantime, feel free to share these ideas with anyone you think could contribute to making a difference. We need to take a stand today. The longer we wait, the more the issues proliferate. The more the issues proliferate, the more we get comfortable with the idea that “this is just the way it is”. I don’t know about you, but I refuse to accept poverty as a norm that just is…

One night's hiatus...

2008-12-13T18:09:00.002-05:00

The Lemon Tree blog will return tomorrow evening: Sunday, December 14.

Thank you for your continued interest...

Judi

chief lemonhead

Lemony Lessons: Climbing the pyramid

2008-12-12T21:03:00.005-05:00

Many of you are probably familiar with the Chinese proverb: Give a man a fish, and you feed him for a day; teach a man to fish, and you feed him for life. One of my favourite business/self-help writers/speakers, Stephen Covey takes it a step further and suggests that if we create a generation of teachers of fishing, we will lift all of society. And, I believe that!

I also believe that many of the existing government programs that support those who live in poverty do so by “giving fish”. These programs deal with the symptoms: hunger and homelessness (among others). Don’t get me wrong, of course we need to deal with these symptoms otherwise we’d be faced with not only people in poverty but people who are dying from starvation and exposure to the elements (which I recognize happens in many other countries). Now, I’m not a psychologist and I don’t pretend to be, but I will wager that those who live at the poverty level are likely, psychologically speaking, at the bottom end of

Maslow’s hierarchy of needs.

And I believe that with all good intentions, those government programs I am referring to were built – at least in part – to respond to those “deficiency needs” shown at the bottom of the pyramid.

I’d like to “throw something out there”… Might it be possible to work through the pyramid rather than step by step? (Yup; I sure did just question Mr. Maslow, the Father of Modern Management Psychology.) Here’s what I’m thinking: Instead of these government programs focusing solely on giving the physiological needs to those living in poverty, why wouldn’t we expand the focus into teaching how to get those needs on their own? That way, people can become self-sufficient rather than continually relying on others.

I can appreciate that some of these programs might already exist but I would question their accessibility. And I can appreciate that some people might question the time required and cost involved in “hand-holding” some of the people to access these teaching/learning programs if we want to move them from dependency to self-sufficiency. But, if we spend the extra effort now to make a real difference, we might actually be able to reduce the problem significantly. Who knows? Maybe one day we can actually eliminate poverty – like so many governments, world-wide, have committed to doing!

I believe that if we could build a culture where teaching and learning combine to drive people to self-sufficiency, we will see a world where the intensity of poverty begins to lighten. I believe that the teachers, who are likely higher (psychologically speaking) on the Pyramid will find themselves “self-actualizing” and that the learners will find themselves striving for higher levels with each new lesson they can take away. We could actually expand hope.

I remember being a kid and learning to ride my bike. I don’t think there was anything more exciting than showing everyone that I could do it on my own! The sense of pride that I actually learned to do something by myself was amazing. It was that feeling – remembering that feeling – that made me want to learn the next thing. What I’m driving at is that if we can learn one thing and feel good about it, we’ll likely want to learn one more… This new cycle continues until learning becomes a habit. And from the lessons come growth, self-sufficiency, pride and self-respect.

Lemons have families too...

2008-12-11T21:00:00.003-05:00

I'd like to give you a little extra background on Nichole and her family:

Nichole’s mom graduated from high school – with honours; she was even enrolled in college (but never had a chance to graduate). She took care of her kids while her husband worked. It was the late 70s.

But papa was a rolling stone. He was in a rock band and drove race cars on the weekends. He thought he was one “hot tamale”! Then, the bottom fell out... He lost his job, lost the house and cheated on his wife. Little Nichole was only 2 when her dad left. A single mom with 3 kids and no income doesn’t make ends meet very well. And, Nichole’s dad was not into paying child support!

Oh, there goes gravity… (Eminem, Lose Yourself)

Nichole’s mom turned to county (State) support. A few food stamps and housing subsidies later, none of which provided a good life for a family of 4 in which 3 of the people were under the age of 18, Nichole’s mom gave into the vices that grip people who begin to feel hopeless. She started smoking and drinking heavily – and Lord knows what else – but, the point is that the pressures were too much!

Nichole’s mom – a grown woman – had to work for minimum wage at the local grocery store. She had a job which did not provide her with any family benefits so she remained a “client of welfare”; she did not get time off – she worked weekends, evenings, and sometimes nights. Nichole, her sister (4 years older), and her brother (8 years older) spent nights alone – fending for themselves. The kids would often wake themselves up and get themselves ready to go to school by themselves because their mom was too tired. Can you understand why, sometimes, the laundry didn’t get done?

The subsidies allowed the family to get a used car – sometimes the car started, sometimes it didn’t. Often, it didn’t start because they couldn't afford gas! (Would you believe that food stamps don’t buy gas, either?) When the car didn’t start, Nichole’s mom couldn’t get to work which meant she didn’t get paid. Oh yeah, I know what you’re thinking: call for a ride, take the bus. I thought that way too – but, let me enlighten you:

When you live in many small towns that are in the suburbs of small cities, there is no public transit! So, that option is out the window. And, when you live in areas where poverty is the norm, reliability is not a trait you find in others very easily. So, you just stay home. It doesn't happen over night; at first, you try. But, over time, when you are continuously met with this kind of challenge and obstacle, it's hard to find the strength to push through.

Shall we recap?
• From a life with hope, to hopeless and alone
• From regular meals to food stamps and housing subsidies
• From stay-at-home mom to minimum wage work with no benefits
• From a nice home to no stability
• From race cars to a car that might not start
• And, no reliable people or public transit

Sounds dreamy, doesn’t it? These were the realities that this family lived with… So, it’s no surprise when I tell you that there were often nights when splitting a baked potato for dinner was something you just had to do. Nichole recalls many nights where her mom actually gave up eating so that the kids could get a larger portion. Did I mention that her mom weighs about 90lbs all wet?

What’s the point of this story? The point is that poverty is a cycle. Somewhere, somehow, the cycle has to be broken. Here’s the big challenge: How do you break the cycle of poverty, create value for education, and mitigate the negative influences, without losing the fact that in the middle of it all, there exists a family?

Lemon Tree Idea Gallery - The Coordination Team

2008-12-10T21:31:00.005-05:00

There are many more stories I intend to share on behalf of Nichole over the course of this blog. But, I think it’s also important to inject some ideas that we might all be able take action on and maybe make a difference. So, that is what I plan to do tonight.

Your contributions to the posts in the “Ideas Gallery” are particularly important. Click on the “comments” link at the end of the post to provide your thoughts. Feel free to provide your comments at any time…

It takes a village…
I’d like to remind you of 2 expressions that I’m sure you’ve heard before: 1/ It takes a village to raise a child; and 2/ Lead by example. What I get from putting these 2 expressions together is that, in order to raise a child – in all the positive sense of the term – we must model the behaviour we want to see.

If we want to make a real difference in bridging the gap between poverty and lack of education, we have to remember that contributing to this gap are, in no particular order of priority, communities, families, and schools. So, when we build out our programs, we have to find a way to link positive support at all the influence points.

The Coordination Team:
What if there was a "coordination team" whose job it was to work within specific communities and draw together those groups who focus on different aspects of the poverty spectrum: Food Banks, Adult education & job placement, Community improvement, Mentoring, Sports, etc… This very targeted focus would likely make a real impact and could transform areas over shorter periods of time than if we hit each individual issue on its own.

You’ll notice that I’m trying to stay away from government support. This doesn’t mean that these families and communities shouldn’t continue to get the support that they are entitled to, but the point is to help them improve to a level where that support is not required. Education is key!

Adults, like children, must learn. They have to be able identify those opportunities where they can apply the learning, and then they have to get paid for it. They also need the support required to feed and shelter their family. Don't forget, they have to be able to get to work too!

Corporations who are part of the broader community should get involved! If labour shortage is an issue – and it is today – these corporations would benefit tremendously from a program that would help people living in poverty acquire skills for future application directly with them. Imagine the employee engagement that comes from helping someone help himself?

A great example of an organization doing just that is RONA. The RONA Foundation makes a difference – one youth at a time. As a sponsor of the Vancouver 2010 Olympic and Paralympic games, RONA has provided materials for the legacy housing which will house athletes during the Games, and be transformed into subsidized housing after the games. Over 150 housing units will be available. In addition to this, RONA’s “How-to” team also worked with homeless and underprivileged youth in the Vancouver area to build various Olympic venues. By providing skills and training to these youth, RONA has given hope and made a difference in these communities. Want to hear the best part? These youth are now training other youth to build more venues, and they are getting paid for it!

For the record – the RONA Foundation and the RONA How-to team provide support to underprivileged communities across Canada.

Lemon-scented laundry...

2008-12-09T21:45:00.005-05:00

Well, now that I’ve introduced you to Nichole, I’d like to walk you through a few episodes of her life. The following stories might get you emotional – they sure did me. Nichole’s life and life experiences are about as clear an example of how lack of education and poverty become part of an endless cycle until someone finds the hope and strength to break it.

Laundry detergent – is it a right or a privilege?

You know what I think is interesting: the term “underprivileged”. According to the

Merriam-Webster online dictionary, underprivileged refers to those deprived through social or economic condition of some of the fundamental rights of all members of civilized society. When most of us think of people who are living in underprivileged conditions, we think of subsidized housing and lack of food. Would you have even considered that access to laundry detergent, or clean clothes, would actually be restricted? I mean, I’m not trying to feign ignorance here but laundry detergent is not something top of mind… not even in our own daily lives, but it is very important.

When Nichole was 9, getting ready for school she often woke up to put on dirty clothes. There were days when the laundry just didn’t get done: without hope or when you're short on food, it’s hard to have the energy to clean clothes. Many times, it was simply a question of not having laundry detergent to begin with. Nichole even has memories of clothes being washed in the bathtub with dish soap because it is cheaper than laundry detergent. Not to mention that it was the only thing left in the house which could clean clothes… well, at least until the welfare check came!

Now, it’s hard enough being a kid who lives below the level of poverty. Add to it the regular stresses of going to school, throw in a dash of “out-of-style” clothing, and for good measure – make those clothes dirty! Do you want to keep going to school?

Here’s the thing – food stamps do not buy laundry detergent. When we look for ways to help bridge the gap between poverty and lack of education, we need to create an educational environment that breaks down (as much as possible) the silos that society creates and then imposes on our children. Those silos make it hard for “over-privileged” children; imagine what they do to underprivileged children?

* The image of the Sunlight detergent is simply used to depict a "lemon-scented" laundry detergent.

My Lemon Tree Inspiration: Setting the stage

2008-12-08T23:08:00.002-05:00

I’ve spent some time in the first 5 posts showing why this cause is so important to our communities. Of course, there are many other reasons which I will discuss over time; this is just a beginning.

Over the next series of posts, I’d like to demonstrate why this issue is so important to me personally, and introduce you to my inspiration for the Lemon Tree.

My inspiration:
A little over 5 years ago, I met someone incredibly special. A person with a big heart and a great mind, but who had never had the opportunities I got. This person grew up in a small community in the US – though she would argue that the “small community” she grew up in was no small community at all because it’s the seat of government for the county. But, here’s the back story…

Nichole grew up in a world that I had only seen in movies and on TV (sure, maybe I was a little sheltered): Her family was on welfare and food stamps. (A little fun fact about food stamps: they only buy food. No soap, no toothpaste, no toilet paper. And, they’re actually called “food coupons”. Want more info, click here.) Nichole rarely, if ever, had new clothes – being the youngest of three, she usually received hand-me-downs. Their home was provided, in part, by county subsidies. And, the odds that their car would start in the morning were as good as the odds you’d win at a game of slots at the casino.

You’d like to think that was the worst of it, but such is not the case. Poverty often breeds despair; Nichole witnessed teenage pregnancies, drug use, abuse and overdose, alcoholism, and domestic assault.

Not that anyone should, but humour me… Can you imagine growing up in this environment and succeeding in school? Nichole quit high school in grade 10.

Over the course of the next week, I’ll share some personal stories on behalf of Nichole, and lead up to her ambitions, dreams and plan of attack.

A word of caution here: The posts may contain mature subjects. Reader discretion is advised.

Lemon Tree Facts: Canada and the US

2008-12-07T20:00:00.005-05:00

One of the things you will notice throughout this blog is that I am focusing on Canada and the US.

Why?

Well, it’s certainly not because poverty or lack of education doesn’t exist anywhere else. In fact, I know it is rampant in some countries that didn’t make my shortlist. I am focusing on these countries because it’s where I live and it’s likely to be the area where I can make a larger and more realistic difference. The ideas that will be generated, I hope, could be exported to other areas of the world; and as I mentioned before, if ideas are already working in other places, maybe those could be imported here.

Now, to get back to your question: “Why?” I’ll take you back to the last paragraph of my last post: the notion of the stone in the water creating ripples. It’s important to make a difference in our “circle of influence” (Stephen Covey, 7 Habits of Highly Effective People). Sure, I’d like to save the world; wouldn’t we all? But, we have to focus on where we can make the biggest impact, and hope that the positive changes we truly influence will generate ripples into the future, and maybe even into the larger global community.

I mean, most poverty-targeting charities are focused on under-developed countries. And, I’m not suggesting (as mentioned before) that there isn’t a need to help the people in those countries, but who’s looking at the issues on our streets, and in our cities? The poverty-targeting charities in Canada and the US usually only garner media attention around the holidays, or around natural disasters (think Katrina).

How is it that we get “guilted” into focusing our charities and efforts on these places miles and oceans away from us when there is poverty in our own city – if not on our own street? How can we then turn around and dare ask why there is crime in our schools; why so many of our youth choose "the wrong path"; and why so many people in our towns are homeless?

So, that’s why I am focusing on Canada and the US: I believe that if we focus on our streets, our neighbourhoods, our families, our communities, our cities, our countries – we can more likely have an immediate impact, a more direct influence, and make a bigger difference in the long run. When those we help choose to “pay it forward” – maybe even like Chris Gardner did – perhaps the greater circle of influence expands into other parts of the world.

So… what does the picture look like in Canada or the US? Well, I suppose you could say it’s like Vegas, to quote the new and improved INXS, “It ain’t pretty, after the show!”

Canada (stats from

www.makepovertyhistory.ca):
• One in six Canadian child is living in poverty;
• Canada’s child poverty rate of 15% is 3x higher than the rate of child poverty in Sweden, Norway or Finland;
• Every month, 770 000 people in Canada use food banks; 40% of those are children!

USA (stats from http://www.heartsandminds.org/articles/childpov.htm):
• One in four American child is living below the official “poverty line” (who knew poverty had a line?);
• 22% of Americans under the age of 18, or 25% under the age of 12, are hungry, or at risk of being hungry;
• Everyday, 2 660 children are born into poverty; 27 die because of it;
• Children and families are the fastest growing group in the homeless population, representing about 40%!

If these stats aren’t enough to convince you that there is a real problem here, you could always Google the issue for yourself and see how many links you could check out!

To be clear, I am not suggesting that the poverty issue is not very real in other parts of the world; I know that it is. But, if we can turn this blog into a movement over time, the goal needs to be to focus at home and bridge the gap between lack of education and poverty. I believe that by keeping our focus on our true circle of influence, by becoming teachers and by modeling the concept of paying it forward, we will positively impact the bigger community, and maybe even the world…

We can be the stone and we can create ripples in the water.

Once Upon Chris Gardner's Lemon Tree

2008-12-06T19:59:00.004-05:00

“Born February 9, 1954 in Milwaukee, Wisconsin, Christopher Paul Gardner's childhood was marked by poverty, domestic violence, alcoholism, sexual abuse and family illiteracy. Gardner published his autobiography out of a desire to shed light on these universal issues and show they do not have to define you. Gardner never knew his father, and lived with his beloved mother, Bettye Jean Triplett (nee Gardner), when not in foster homes. Gardner is indebted to Bettye Jean for his success as she provided him with strong "spiritual genetics" and taught him that in spite of where he came from, he could chart another path and attain whatever goals he set for himself.” (http://www.chrisgardnermedia.com/main/biography.htm)

If this passage about Chris Gardner’s life doesn’t ring a bell for you, maybe clicking here will jar your memory.

Chris Gardner’s secret weapon for survival: his mind! Even at a young age, Chris knew how to read and realized that this unto itself would provide hope for him. His ability to expand his hope through learning is inspirational. His sacrifice, even beyond the pain he was already experiencing, for the chance to improve his life and his son’s life is one that many of us might not have the strength to make.

As if that weren’t enough, what else makes Chris Gardner special? Chris has taken his lessons and recognizes that without the help he did get, the teachers he did have, he may not have succeeded. He is now “forwarding” the favour by:

• Sitting on the Board of the National Fatherhood Initiative;
• Sitting on the Board of the National Education Foundation and sponsoring 2 awards;
• Sitting on the Board of the International Rescue Committee;
• Remaining committed to the Glide Memorial Church in San Francisco;
• And helping to fund low-income housing project and employment opportunities for Tenderloin (a notoriously poor area of SF).

See Chris on 20/20:
• Part 1
• Part 2

What’s my point?
My point is that when people have the hope to pull themselves out of poverty, can find the right teachers so they can learn what is required to stand on their own feet, and then expand their hope to reach incredible heights, they give back. It’s like the concept of the stone in the water and the ripple it creates.

I believe that each of us have the opportunity to be the “stone”. Help people find their hope; help people learn; and watch them make a difference. If you can teach - and make it a habit to teach - you’ll keep creating ripples. This does not cost money, takes less time than you think, and makes a world of difference!

A little clarity to the Lemon Tree

2008-12-05T22:29:00.010-05:00

First, I want to apologize for the late post… I will try to get them up by 7pm EST every day – 1 a day – until more are required. Tonight, I ran a into a delay in line doing the groceries - sorry... And now, back to the blog.

Now, before we move into the “ideas gallery” of this blog, I want to just clarify a few things:

• This blog is a series of ideas that have been percolating in my head for a long time now; and I’m choosing to share them via the blog. Maybe I’m biased – I’m sure many of you are shocked – but I think some of these ideas may have some merit.

• By using the words learn and education, I am not referring to anyone needing a post-secondary education of any sort. In fact, I know of many people who are not living in poverty at all, and who do not have a high school diploma. I am also well aware that there are very highly educated people living at, and under, the level of poverty.

In all cases, I am referring to the simple thirst for knowledge and desire to learn something; maybe even learn something new. Hey – we all had to learn to tie our shoes at one point, right?

• I acknowledge that some of the ideas that will be posted may already be “out there”. If you’ve heard of them, please share where and how they work? I will also be sharing many examples. Maybe it’s not a question of something new, but rather of importing something that works.

• I also acknowledge that there are some elements: images or references, which I will use throughout the blog that are proprietary to other entities. For example: though my profile image may portray Mr. Lemonhead, I clearly am not him. With this bullet point, I would like to refer you to the Lemonhead candy website. They are one of my favourites and one reason for the “lemonhead” reference throughout the blog. The other reason is the fact that we are talking about a Lemon Tree!

In any other situation where references or images will be posted, I will be sure to reference the source and also attempt to advise the entities involved.

• THE IMPORTANT STUFF:
The point of this blog is to make us aware of the link between poverty and lack of education, to highlight the chance that we have to expand hope through teaching, and hopefully to find a way for all of us to take action!

You are all invited to participate in this conversation… Ideas have to start somewhere, and then they need to grow. Like I said: who knows where this can lead?

Next stop: “Once Upon a Lemon Tree”

I hope the Lemon Seed can grow

2008-12-04T18:13:00.004-05:00

…The first thing you need to know about learning to identify opportunities is that the secret lies in hope.

I was once told that there are rich people and poor people in the world – but not in terms of financials (although yes, that way too). Rather, we can measure someone’s wealth in terms of hope. There is nothing sadder than a person “poor of hope”. But, if you take a look at this interview with Frank O’Dea, co-founder of Second Cup, you’ll see that it is a possible theory that everyone has some hope. The success lies in the ability to expand our own horizon of hope.

Pay close attention to the section time stamped 1:35

So, if one day, someone hopes for 99¢ - that’s what they work toward. Then, the next day, maybe they’ll hope for $1.50 and work toward that. Who knows where the next bit of hope can lead! Heck – you’ve heard of the guy who traded one red paper clip up to a house, right? Now, that’s some serious horizon expanding hope!

What does all this have to do with the Lemon Tree idea? Well – I guess I have 3 hopes – aka: 3 objectives. (Nah – I don’t have a business background, lol.) There is a short-term, a medium-term, and a long-term “hope”.

Short-term
Get people talking! Poverty, though not the cause of every social symptom, is the springboard from which a lot of people jump into an empty pool. If you can imagine that – it hurts. So, let’s all start by being aware.

Medium-term
Get people teaching! Since everyone needs to learn something, then everyone should teach something. Nope – I’m not suggesting that we all need a Master’s degree or a PhD but think back to your lemon stand. Someone taught you something, and you probably made a little cash. So, teach someone something… Pay it forward!

Long-term
Get people creating! If we’re all teaching, then we’re creating learners. But how can we create the biggest impact? In the long-term, I hope we can create places where the people who need it can come and learn. Not just “programs that are available to you”, but learning experiences that are accessible, motivating and maybe even hope expanding.

Can we save the world? I hope! (…but, probably not in one sitting.)

The Lemon Seed

2008-12-03T20:05:00.012-05:00

I think I would be remiss if I didn’t join in the world of endless information, endless communications and endless ideas. You see (for those who don’t know me), I’m one of those people who can take an 8-hour day and turn it into a thousand different ideas. Maybe some are good, maybe some are bad – but the melon is always thinking! And, it is always thinking about something in particular: the link between poverty and lack of education.

I’m hoping that by shining some light onto people’s stories: experiences, successes and fears; and by providing some insight into some ideas I’ve come to dream of, there may be someone out there who can help with making some of these ideas and hopes come to life.

First, let me give you some background on the “Once upon a Lemon Tree” concept. You’ve heard of the expression: “When life gives you lemons, make lemonade”? Well – that’s where this idea was born. Fact is, in today’s climate, there are probably a lot of people who feel like they’ve been given the whole damn lemon tree!

Second, let me show you how the “lemon tree” has anything to do with the link between “poverty and lack of education”. Many of you might remember your first job setting up a lemonade stand on your street and selling a glass for 10¢ on a hot summer day. But, how did you make the lemonade? If your mom or dad hadn’t showed you and your friends how to make the stuff, you’d have had nothing but the lemons and sugar! So, you had to learn. That’s the point… if you learn something you can probably make some money off of it.

Third, let me demonstrate the missing link – and hence, some of the stories and ideas I will present in future posts. Just because you learned something doesn’t mean you can make money, but it is a mandatory pre-requisite. The missing link to the “lemon tree” is to find the opportunity. But, then again – I suppose you could learn to identify opportunities…